"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does a Master DJ have chemistry with every girl?

PianoGuy33

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What is your guys opinion of chemistry? I've only had chemistry with 1 hot girl ever, but I met her over the summer briefly and she lives in a different state. I've had a tun of chemistry with ugly girls, and I've had chemistry with a BPD chick, but that was just because she has BPD. What is your guys opinion of chemistry? Is it overrated or is to real? Should I just have chemistry with every hot girl?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Purefilth

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Not all of them bro. You can feel good with many, but sparks only fly with a few.

And then the sparks may not last. I think maybe 4 girls I've had real chemistry and "feelings" and these I made into LTRs.
 

Who Dares Win

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Attraction is different than chemistry, a good looking guy can potentially attract a good percentage of girl he deals with but the number of them with which there will be chemistry is critically lower.

The same is for us, I would bang maybe 30% of the girls I have around but probably only with <5% there is some serious chemistry.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Gambler

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Everyone who responded above is 100% correct....

NO, NO NO...... NO!!!

Do not worry about the hugely broad category known as "women." Hell, it's really no different than looking to buy a car. When you decide to look, you are focusing in on the type you're interested in, right? If you want to purchase a Jeep, don't worry about what's posted in the Acura section.

Your style, attitude and vibe should be honed to find what YOU are looking for. Speaking of style, many guys here still underestimate the importance of their appearance. Simply put, this is a woman's first clue regarding your compatibility together. You get to choose whether you want to dress up as a Jeep or an Acura -- then do it with style.

The Gambler
 

zekko

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I don't know about "master DJs", but I've noticed that with a lot of naturals, they will garner attention from most of the women as soon as they walk into the room, the girls just light up.

But yeah, I don't think you can have chemistry with everyone.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Part of chemistry is PHYSICAL attraction. Being DJ is irrelevant if one or both of you does not find the other attractive.
 

FairShake

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There is a difference between charm and connection.

A charming guy can have every woman laughing and flirting with him. He has "it" and they can't get enough. They have a way of talking and looking that women love, literally from 8 to 80. But they can't fvck them all. There are logistics involved as well as two people's compatibility.

A girl has to WANT what you're selling. Just like in sales. You can have a line of bullsh!t a mile long that is music to a client's ears. Sometimes even enough to buy it. But if they don't want or need what you are selling it's that much harder to sell. In dating you may be able to have them smiling all night long but if you are too short, too tall, too ugly, talk too much, aren't interesting to them it won't work out.
 

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Hell no. Not even a majority.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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