"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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does a DJ pursue???

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say a DJ has his eyes on this girl, and he has exhausted all possible tactics to attract this girl..yet for some reason, he couldnt get her attention (maybe she's surrounded by men already, she isnt intrested, whatnot)
does the DJ pursue? and try a little harder to get her attention?
this is something im dealing with right now, obviously a long looong way from being a DJ.
pls enlighten me. TIA
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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He will pursue, but he knows that that is not the only girl he can get n there r tons of other fishes in the sea. He will pursue but for the fun of it and he doesn't care about the result.
 
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