"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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does a DJ pursue???

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say a DJ has his eyes on this girl, and he has exhausted all possible tactics to attract this girl..yet for some reason, he couldnt get her attention (maybe she's surrounded by men already, she isnt intrested, whatnot)
does the DJ pursue? and try a little harder to get her attention?
this is something im dealing with right now, obviously a long looong way from being a DJ.
pls enlighten me. TIA
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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He will pursue, but he knows that that is not the only girl he can get n there r tons of other fishes in the sea. He will pursue but for the fun of it and he doesn't care about the result.
 
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