"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does a DJ paying for anything at a bar or date???

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I understand the worst thing to do is to buy a woman a drink.

Does a DJ act like such a king that he demands the girl to pay for his drinks the whole night? I don't understand how to handle dishing money out. I seriously don't mind buying booze for myself, but I don't want to buy jack squat for a random bimbo for the night. What do you guys think?

Also, let's say you set up a date with a chick after you get her number. Like do you go dutch when you see a movie, even though you asked her on the date? I was thinking of acting like I forgot my wallet, just to be a dink.

What do you guys think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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derrickmn said:
I understand the worst thing to do is to buy a woman a drink.

Does a DJ act like such a king that he demands the girl to pay for his drinks the whole night? I don't understand how to handle dishing money out. I seriously don't mind buying booze for myself, but I don't want to buy jack squat for a random bimbo for the night. What do you guys think?

Also, let's say you set up a date with a chick after you get her number. Like do you go dutch when you see a movie, even though you asked her on the date? I was thinking of acting like I forgot my wallet, just to be a dink.

What do you guys think?
Derrick you in Minneapolis? good to see another local post

There ways to get around this. If it's a girl you know and a date the proper etiquette in my opinion would be to pay or go dutch. You can always do reverse-qualification on a girl and get her to buy you a drink if she claims she is one of those independent types for instance, one of the things I like to do is tell a women, I got the first round you got the second, shhit works


Another thing you can do is go to happy hour where they got 2-4-1's there tons of places in Minneapolis that do this(anywhere Uptown, I try to stay away from downtown on dates). I love happy hour cause the drinks are cheap and flowing

if it's some chick you just met? HELLL NAW

just my .02
 
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