"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does a DJ know how to take an EX-GF back?

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It was a weakness on my part that I kissed another girl. I love my Ex-gf to death. Everything was absolutely great except for what I did. There's no doubt that she loves me too. I have absolutely great confidence based on our past that we will get back together and if we do I'll make certain it never happens again.

Honestly I'm very confused. I want her back, but I don't know how to go about it. Instinctively my body is going in a direction where I feel like letting her go and just wait till she comes back. That is when she can't find a better man. No doubt I don't want that kind of conclusion.

Most of the advices out there are asking for a price. I searched SS but I couldn't find any. I really need great perspective about this issue I'm having. :confused:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does a DJ know how to take an EX-GF back?

That is an oxymoron question if I ever seen one.

First of a DJ accepts the fact he isn't confused and that it wasn't a weakness that made him kiss another girl, it was his desire.

Secondly a DJ accepts the fact that if he fvcks up, he moves on. You kissed a girl because you wanted too, this was no accident. You need to move on and find yourself other girls to date because even if by any chance you manage to patch things up with your ex, this will always be hanging over your head like a dark cloud and she will use that against you.

What you feel for your ex right now is oneitis and its unhealthy. Accept it and move on.
 
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how many threads do you need to make about one girl?

the fact that you make so many threads about her, shows that you need to stop being a p*ssy who had some guuuurlfriend who he LOOOOVED awwwwwwwwwww, and maybe grow a pair of balls and learn how to game women, while in the meantime learning how to live happily on your own, and not depend on some b1tch to keep you warm at night

k pumpkin?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1185996
 
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