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Oh, I had a disaster last night. I held a get together at a pool bar. The bad part, my ex was there, the good part, a new girl. The ex decided to call up the exbf to "talk". Awesome timing, I want to bootstomp her now.
That aside, onto the main part.
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How many of you have heard of being C&F, the prize, Hot/cold, kiss testing, asking questions, being the man, Speed Seduction, and other tips and tricks? It's good stuff, when used properly by a advanced DJ. No newbie will be successful until they understand the basics, the simpliest way to do things.
Now, remember high school. Remember how there were groups, and they was ALWAYS some attraction between a girl and a guy. You would see them together more often then normal. They would both be flirting with each other, maybe holding hands, having fun? How about the guys that had girls swarming around them, the smooth talkers and the ones that weren't afraid to talk to a girl. Compare them both. You have someone that knows the game (although unlikely to know it), and the one that is going by instinct.
What is the lowest common denominator they present? It's simple flirting.
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The best way to gain experience in talking to girls, in having fun with girls, is to flirt. Flirting can take the range of a stupid comment, to poking them, stealing something (temporarilly), or picking them up and walking somewhere. It doesn't matter what you do in the end, as long as she's smiling, having fun and laughing, it's working.
So, back to this get together I had.
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My buddy came with her. I never seen her in my life, but she's hotter then my ex (who was there, don't ask). Anyways, we got introduced, simple wave of a hi. Next thing I did was open my arms up with a big smile and she came in
!!
I didn't know how good she was at pool, so buddy said she was horrible at it. I wanted to see for myself. We played a round. She was better then some people, but still beginner. It got down to the black ball just outside the side, easy in for me. I 'missed', and sunk it elsewhere. Once again, the good old "you gave that to me!" came out. I put her beside me (hand on waist), and said "No I didn't". She said "Yess you did!". Me: "Ok, maybe just a little" Her: "Maybe!! *laughs*" Buddy came up, asked what was up, she said I gave the game to her, I said "Just a little". More laughter.
Over the night, I looked at her ID, and I was looking for something and I guess she got the idea of I was going to take it, so she started to grab for it. Naturally, I withheld it (and you will be amazed at how fast my wrist can move). It got to the point where she was underneath me still standing, still trying to get the damn thing. I purposely collapsed a bit and I fell on top of her. She's smiling and laughing the whole time, and I never got to see what I wanted to see.
Another time, she was playing pool against my friend's bro, and she was getting skunked bad. She came up to me, got pretty close and asked me to play for her. I asked how come, she said she was losing pretty bad. Aww! I then said "Do I have to?". She said she'll love me forever. Aww! I then asked "What if I don't?". She said she still would. Aww! She's still close, if not closer now. I decided that I would play for her. I sunk 2 balls and gave it back to her, ensuring the "You stopped on purpose". Me: "Maybe..". I still got another close hug.
Lastly, I think that I was successful, because I was sitting beside her (we had no chairs, weird), and she put her head on my shoulder and rested there. I put my head on hers and just sat there with her. For all newbies, that IS a sign of interest.
The rest of the night was ruined because of my stupid ex calling up her exbf to "talk" to him, so I lost the rest of the night for flirting:box:.
In all, it was good stuff.
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So, the simple tips for dating...
1. Flirt. Always. (Yes, I flirted with my ex too)
2. Joke around/Tease. (stealing stuff (even unintentally))
3. No one likes to lose horribly, so give up the game sometimes! (I still raped everyone else at pool)
...and lastly
4. Look for IOIs!
It all comes down to number 1. If she's laughing, having a good time and smiling, flirting is working. The point of dating is to have fun, not to always be looking for your next girlfriend! I conclude, another successful FR, with the exception of my ex that needs to be bootstomped later.
Enjoy and comment please!
That aside, onto the main part.
----------------------------------
How many of you have heard of being C&F, the prize, Hot/cold, kiss testing, asking questions, being the man, Speed Seduction, and other tips and tricks? It's good stuff, when used properly by a advanced DJ. No newbie will be successful until they understand the basics, the simpliest way to do things.
Now, remember high school. Remember how there were groups, and they was ALWAYS some attraction between a girl and a guy. You would see them together more often then normal. They would both be flirting with each other, maybe holding hands, having fun? How about the guys that had girls swarming around them, the smooth talkers and the ones that weren't afraid to talk to a girl. Compare them both. You have someone that knows the game (although unlikely to know it), and the one that is going by instinct.
What is the lowest common denominator they present? It's simple flirting.
------------
The best way to gain experience in talking to girls, in having fun with girls, is to flirt. Flirting can take the range of a stupid comment, to poking them, stealing something (temporarilly), or picking them up and walking somewhere. It doesn't matter what you do in the end, as long as she's smiling, having fun and laughing, it's working.
So, back to this get together I had.
------------
My buddy came with her. I never seen her in my life, but she's hotter then my ex (who was there, don't ask). Anyways, we got introduced, simple wave of a hi. Next thing I did was open my arms up with a big smile and she came in
!!I didn't know how good she was at pool, so buddy said she was horrible at it. I wanted to see for myself. We played a round. She was better then some people, but still beginner. It got down to the black ball just outside the side, easy in for me. I 'missed', and sunk it elsewhere. Once again, the good old "you gave that to me!" came out. I put her beside me (hand on waist), and said "No I didn't". She said "Yess you did!". Me: "Ok, maybe just a little" Her: "Maybe!! *laughs*" Buddy came up, asked what was up, she said I gave the game to her, I said "Just a little". More laughter.
Over the night, I looked at her ID, and I was looking for something and I guess she got the idea of I was going to take it, so she started to grab for it. Naturally, I withheld it (and you will be amazed at how fast my wrist can move). It got to the point where she was underneath me still standing, still trying to get the damn thing. I purposely collapsed a bit and I fell on top of her. She's smiling and laughing the whole time, and I never got to see what I wanted to see.
Another time, she was playing pool against my friend's bro, and she was getting skunked bad. She came up to me, got pretty close and asked me to play for her. I asked how come, she said she was losing pretty bad. Aww! I then said "Do I have to?". She said she'll love me forever. Aww! I then asked "What if I don't?". She said she still would. Aww! She's still close, if not closer now. I decided that I would play for her. I sunk 2 balls and gave it back to her, ensuring the "You stopped on purpose". Me: "Maybe..". I still got another close hug.
Lastly, I think that I was successful, because I was sitting beside her (we had no chairs, weird), and she put her head on my shoulder and rested there. I put my head on hers and just sat there with her. For all newbies, that IS a sign of interest.
The rest of the night was ruined because of my stupid ex calling up her exbf to "talk" to him, so I lost the rest of the night for flirting:box:.
In all, it was good stuff.
-----------
So, the simple tips for dating...
1. Flirt. Always. (Yes, I flirted with my ex too)
2. Joke around/Tease. (stealing stuff (even unintentally))
3. No one likes to lose horribly, so give up the game sometimes! (I still raped everyone else at pool)
...and lastly
4. Look for IOIs!
It all comes down to number 1. If she's laughing, having a good time and smiling, flirting is working. The point of dating is to have fun, not to always be looking for your next girlfriend! I conclude, another successful FR, with the exception of my ex that needs to be bootstomped later.
Enjoy and comment please!