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What I learnt last night/The Finer Points of Dating
Teasing is gold. It's not gold, it's goddamn priceless. Never ever stop It is crucial to keeping the date in a flirty mood, fun and random. It also sets up KINO, which I used myself, and a few setups of her using it on me (scared ^^,)
Don't do a normal date.
I planned for just a coffee date, but we did bowling, pool, her driving and coffee.
If her reaction stays good, then she's comfortable
Don't stop the date because you feel it's too long. If she is comfortable and enjoying herself, you are only denying yourself. Nothing sucks more to enjoy something and have it abuptly end.
Let the girl take the reins
Your plans sucks. Honestly. No matter what plan you make, follow though on the most crucial aspect (mine was the coffee). Let her take control and listen to thought-of-the-moment ideas for the rest.
Have fun
Never let a date become, oh..yeah...alright, so..uh? If this happens, end it, you lost the momentium you had. Keep the date LIGHT, FUN and INTERESTING. (I'm going to call that LFI ^^,). Never apply too much kino, never over-use a joke and never ever let boredom take over.
And lastly...
Dates are NOT ONLY for relationships. Take a closer girl--friend and enjoy a night. If you constantly rely on the thought of getting a kiss, or something else relationship-realted, it WILL NOT HAPPEN. Take it easy and let both of you enjoy yourselves.
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What I've accomplished over the years.
I guess I've changed a lot in the years. I'm no longer a obsessive noob, or Majorly AFC. I have developed a care-free attitude, started to let loose, enjoy moments and have fun. I've become so much more confident in my choices and my actions and reactions to girls.
I'm no longer the nice-guy that the only thought (and subsequent reactions) was girlfriend-related. Because of my changes, learning to have fun with anyone has increased my self-esteem bigtime and I'm happy. I tried to burn the bridge between me and my ex a year ago. Apperently I didn't burn it enough, and it's a damn good thing I didn't. I've discovered that there's friends after relationships, that you can still flirt with them, you can still tease them and in the end, it's perfectly alright.
And lastly, I'm holding a leaving-party for a group of friends and she's coming. The goal on that night is to obtain a lipkiss or more. This date has shown my ex that I'm fun to be around, and though the chances are still slim, they are immensely better that she'll fall for my awesomeness.
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Cheers and Sarge On!
Teasing is gold. It's not gold, it's goddamn priceless. Never ever stop It is crucial to keeping the date in a flirty mood, fun and random. It also sets up KINO, which I used myself, and a few setups of her using it on me (scared ^^,)
Don't do a normal date.
I planned for just a coffee date, but we did bowling, pool, her driving and coffee.
If her reaction stays good, then she's comfortable
Don't stop the date because you feel it's too long. If she is comfortable and enjoying herself, you are only denying yourself. Nothing sucks more to enjoy something and have it abuptly end.
Let the girl take the reins
Your plans sucks. Honestly. No matter what plan you make, follow though on the most crucial aspect (mine was the coffee). Let her take control and listen to thought-of-the-moment ideas for the rest.
Have fun
Never let a date become, oh..yeah...alright, so..uh? If this happens, end it, you lost the momentium you had. Keep the date LIGHT, FUN and INTERESTING. (I'm going to call that LFI ^^,). Never apply too much kino, never over-use a joke and never ever let boredom take over.
And lastly...
Dates are NOT ONLY for relationships. Take a closer girl--friend and enjoy a night. If you constantly rely on the thought of getting a kiss, or something else relationship-realted, it WILL NOT HAPPEN. Take it easy and let both of you enjoy yourselves.
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What I've accomplished over the years.
I guess I've changed a lot in the years. I'm no longer a obsessive noob, or Majorly AFC. I have developed a care-free attitude, started to let loose, enjoy moments and have fun. I've become so much more confident in my choices and my actions and reactions to girls.
I'm no longer the nice-guy that the only thought (and subsequent reactions) was girlfriend-related. Because of my changes, learning to have fun with anyone has increased my self-esteem bigtime and I'm happy. I tried to burn the bridge between me and my ex a year ago. Apperently I didn't burn it enough, and it's a damn good thing I didn't. I've discovered that there's friends after relationships, that you can still flirt with them, you can still tease them and in the end, it's perfectly alright.
And lastly, I'm holding a leaving-party for a group of friends and she's coming. The goal on that night is to obtain a lipkiss or more. This date has shown my ex that I'm fun to be around, and though the chances are still slim, they are immensely better that she'll fall for my awesomeness.
--- Back to Original FR ---
Cheers and Sarge On!