Doc Love's Two Week Theory

[drmeathead]

Doc Love once stated that if a girl doesnt contact you for two weeks then she isnt interested. Yet in a recent post I saw that a girl called a guy after a month. I have gotten calls from girls out of nowhere after a month or even two. What is Doc Love's reason behind the theory? What are some of you other fellas field reports on this?

 

[cactus3178]

I think it depends on the situation. Have you ever been not particularly interested in a girl, then one drunken/boring/etc night, you decide to call her out of the blue, just for the hell of it?

I agree, if your trying to date a chick, and she doesn't call you back for two weeks, your done. You don't have tim for that ****.

If a girl didn't contact a guy after a month and then all of a sudden decides to give him a call, there could be a dozen reasons for that. Could be she was busy, girls have things to do too...Maybe she changed her mind. Stranger things have happened.



The way I look at it: If I was genuinely interested in a girl, I wouldn't go 2 weeks without talking to her, and I wouldn't expect her to let that much time pass if she was truly interested.

 

[drmeathead]

Thats the way i feel too. Doc Love just made it seem that there was/is/and will be no interest if a girl doesnt respond in two week's time. i realize variables such as busy and what not factor in.

 

[cactus3178]

If he's talking about NO contact whatsoever, I agree with him. I'm sorry, but no matter how busy a person is, there's always time for a phone call.

If any girl is interested, she's find time to at least call. But that's just my opinion, I don't put up with that crap anymore

 

[drmeathead]

Agreed. If she does after such a long time is worth having? Its kinda like hitting on girl for the first time after last call.

 

[Paradox]

Doc love basically separates women into 2 categories High-interest and Low-interest.

High-interest girls are the ones to go after because you have the best possible chance of success.

Low-interest girls are the ones that Doc Love says to NEXT because we have a poor chance of scoring with them. Now this is not to say that you can't score with a low interest girl it is just alot more work. With a Low-interest girl you have to do things to raise her Interest Level (IL) before you have any chance.

Not calling, not keeping in contact, saying she is busy, short conversations, breaking dates and standing you up on dates are all signs of Low-interest.

 

[snakeeyes]

If a you call a girl and she doesnt return your call or calls you in two weeks it means she doesnt care about you. If someone doesnt care about you, then why should you care about them. Yeah I had a lot of girls stop calling me and then calls me back a month later. I have some good my examples. One of my ex called me out of the blue one night after we had broken up for a year. She called me cuz her friends told her that they saw me getting high at a rave and wanted me to stop smoking. She kept calling me and also wanted to get back with me. Then theres my most recent ex, she decided we should stop dating and then a month later she called me back asking me why i dont call her anymore. we got back together and broked up 5 months later. 2 months after we broked up she called me again. This time i didnt pick up the phone and never returned her call. At a party we saw each other and she was all trying to flirt with me. I resisted. These girls are nice girls but they got to make up their mind. Doc Love is right. Dont waste time on girls that flake out on you. If she does call you and wants to go out with you after two weeks of no communication then she has to put a lot of effort to try and get you back. Make the girl go through hurdles for you. If she doesnt then she didnt like you that much in the first place. Some girls cant make up their minds, but hey good things dont last forever.

 

[TooColdUlrick]

Originally posted by drmeathead
Doc Love once stated that if a girl doesnt contact you for two weeks then she isnt interested. Yet in a recent post I saw that a girl called a guy after a month. I have gotten calls from girls out of nowhere after a month or even two. What is Doc Love's reason behind the theory? What are some of you other fellas field reports on this?

it's a good general rule, but there are certainly exceptions. remember, it's the mans responsibility to do the chasing. there are many women who are absolutely terrified of initiating anything, because they can't deal with rejection.

now, if you contact HER and she waits two weeks to get back to you, that's another story! just play it by ear.

my rule is this: i call her once and only once. i'll leave a message, i don't give a sh!t. if she doesn't return the call, later...i ain't beggin.

if she does call back, the next day or the next month, i'll call her back and set something up.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by drmeathead
Doc Love once stated that if a girl doesnt contact you for two weeks then she isnt interested. Yet in a recent post I saw that a girl called a guy after a month. I have gotten calls from girls out of nowhere after a month or even two. What is Doc Love's reason behind the theory? What are some of you other fellas field reports on this?

Here's something to consider; there's a difference between a woman that is interested and a woman that is attention seeking. The difference is that a woman with a high IL will go out of her way to see you, often.

A woman that is attention seeking will be hot and cold in that she usually has a few AFCs giving her attention at the same time and she will only contact you if the other's she'd rather be with are not giving her the attention she is looking for.