You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
It would probably answer 90% of the "Why did she do that" type questions posted in this forum.She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I have developed a seduction technique that only works on white skinned babes with dark brown hair, ones who look like Jill Henessey from Crossing Jordan.Francisco d'Anconia said:The System is especially for guys who want to find and keep quality women for long term relationships. His writing style isn't the best but the content is spot on.
Funny that you post this because I prefer brunettes over blonds which brings up the question why I live someplace overrun blond, blue eyed Swedes and Nordic women. Have you considered there may be a personality difference between blonds and brunettes? You wouldn't think so but where I live most women go out of their way to be blond, it's definitely a lemming type of thing up here so it's slim pickings for me to find a sultry, raven haired beauty.PigAdlemPimp said:
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Actually after a quick looking over, a lot of what was said in Alpha Male aligns with what was published in Doc Love's System about five years prior to Alpha Male's release. None the less, many great works have been written from what has been learned from other sources. Books may be copyrighted but knowledge can not.Exp said: