"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i remember back in the day (circa 2001) i used to read his articles on askmen.com and think this guy was some kind of guru, eventually I got back into a relationship and forgot about it all.

Anyway, I was recently surfing some old sites for nastalgic purposes and I gotta say, his articles are still pretty entertaining. I still do enjoy his writing style and what not.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've always like Doc Love's stuff. It's very geared towards an LTR though and even though most don't think they were the same person, if you read through 'The System' and then read Anti-Dump's machine.....there's too many similarities in my opinion.

Almost like the machine was a precursor to the system, but anyway that's my opinion.

But yeah, I kinda like his folksy style. I still read the system every now and then.
 

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DonJuan_DeRosco said:
I've always like Doc Love's stuff. It's very geared towards an LTR though and even though most don't think they were the same person, if you read through 'The System' and then read Anti-Dump's machine.....there's too many similarities in my opinion.

Almost like the machine was a precursor to the system, but anyway that's my opinion.

But yeah, I kinda like his folksy style. I still read the system every now and then.
Some of his concepts however (such as having an LTR approach to women and getting the "home" phone number) happen to be dated. The dude needs to get on with the times. Solid advice for the most part but I also don't agree with putting on an act to try and keep the same ****ing woman happy. That's not gonna roll with many males.
 

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I own his system. Reading his articles was like opening Pandoras Box when I first began learning this stuff. Just imagine, every mistake you've ever made with a woman being laid out in front of you.

I think he uses ghost writers from time to time for his articles because advice given in his articles will contradict his book at times.

I really liked how he teaches men to ignore what women say and instead go only by their actions. If you read anti-dumps machine it's almost a clone of the system.
 

Love's Orphan

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I always wonder if doc love copied anti dump or viceversa, or if they happen to think almost the same independently. I listen to his radio show when i can. Some of the things are outdated like you guys said; he says that cell # is fine nowadays. But things like bottom line and reality factors, male and female traits havent changed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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C-quenced said:
Some of his concepts however (such as having an LTR approach to women and getting the "home" phone number) happen to be dated. The dude needs to get on with the times.
Some guys are looking for a LTR (with as decent a woman as possible), the system isn't a bad method to contribute towards that, same with anti-dump's machine.

His old school style could do with an update, but his principles are still sound. Especially for the newcomers to this stuff, hell it's how I found this forum back in the day.

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