do yourself a favor and READ this!!!!!!!!!!!

[improvingdonjuan]

Whats up with you guys? if you really want to be a true don juan you seriously need to change your way of thinking and your definition of succes with women. So this is something you need to keep in consideration. Actually there are two things you should consider and those are

SUCCES IS NOT ONLY WHEN YOU GET A NUMBER OR GET LAID BUT ALSO WHEN YOU GET REJECTED

why i say this is because you guys think that if you get shot down that means that you failed(let me tell you something HELL NO!) you have succeded and ill tell you why

1- you are not a loser because you actually have a pair (balls) and when ahead and talked to her.it will not affect you as much as if you didnt try

2- you learn from your mistakes(make sure you do) if you said something stupid now you know, just dont do it again.besides to be a good don juan you need practice

3- you found out that she really wasnt interested. thus you saved your precious time for someone who is.

4- you get practice!!!!!!! something we all need nomatter how good we are

DONT PUT TO MUCH PRESSURE ON YOUR SELF

before aproching her just think to yourself that you are just trying to be friendly and if she rejects you then she is a b*tch who doesnt deserve you.Afer all is her loss right?

NOW GO AHEAD AND ACTUALLY PRACTICE!!!!! BECAUSE ITS NOT ENOUGH TO KNOW THE THEORIES IF YOU DONT ACTUALLY PRACTICE

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Confidence is the key to women

 

[lc]

no risk, no practice, no experience---------------no point.

Good post.

lc

[This message has been edited by lc (edited 08-24-2001).]