"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you welcome competition?

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No I don't mean treating your gaming like pick up basketball, i mean periodically when you're out and about will you compete against another guy and get a slight rush from it? There have been many times when i've been out doing my thing, come across a girl only to have an equally or more skilled player enter the picture and try to game the same girl. Whether I win or lose, I alway's feel like if i've run my A-game then i've come out ahead. It forces me to try new things and reminds me of some of the basics that I have to bring to the table. It gets me pumped to go out and game more knowing that I can compete with the best and grow because of it as a player.

Again i'm not saying i go out an intentionally look for girls who are being hit on by other guys solely for the sake of competing, but when the situation arises I step up and keep up. What's your take?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Real men love competition, when I used to do competitive swimming I LOVED THE TIME TRIALS. When my friend beat me I would practice extra hard so when the next time trials came I would beat him. I think healthy competition is great and every guy should experiance it. Man I really miss those days, I'm thinking of starting again.

I loved competition when I'm sarging too, because it shows what I need to improve and I can learn from the guy if he's better than me. Which is really rare he has to be around David Delangelo to beat me.
 

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The less competition the better. Only a complete fool welcomes competition in the real world. Trust me, there are many places where you would be tops and the beautiful girls would be looking at you. You wouldn't think much of competition then.
 

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I prefer no competition, but if some chump decides to c0ck block me i don't have a problem decking him.
That's why you go the gym ain't it?

Of course a gentleman is alway polite first, and gives him a chance to go his own way before real hurt comes to him.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i mean periodically when you're out and about will you compete against another guy and get a slight rush from it? There have been many times when i've been out doing my thing, come across a girl only to have an equally or more skilled player enter the picture and try to game the same girl.
Nope, thats the trait of a low self esteem bytch..women take pleasure in that kind of superficial competition NOT men.

It forces me to try new things and reminds me of some of the basics that I have to bring to the table.
I don't look at trying to hook up with bytchez as a sport..itz more of a pain..but i realize game is something thats gotta get done if your trying to get a random piece of as$ My ONLY purpose for trying to sweet talk bytchez iz to FUKK and I opt for the least amount of interference to reach my goal

personally I don't give a 5HIT about these other dudes or so called players, there either in my way or outta my way, and I hate delays.

It gets me pumped to go out and game more knowing that I can compete with the best and grow because of it as a player.
I don't compete for bytchez, I let other bytchez compete for bytchez..

I prefer no competition, but if some chump decides to c0ck block me i don't have a problem decking him.
That's why you go the gym ain't it?

Of course a gentleman is alway polite first, and gives him a chance to go his own way before real hurt comes to him.
NICE !! i like your style, Play the Game just be careful though hook'upz aint worth getting knifed in the eye or jumped. Alotta kidz don't know how to act these days and can become very sore losers its best to keep a level head than to get your head leveled.

The less competition the better. Only a complete fool welcomes competition in the real world.
see !! now thats what I'm talking about, sparky0000

Trust me, there are many places where you would be tops and the beautiful girls would be looking at you. You wouldn't think much of competition then.
and a good point !
 

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Aboot is scared, sparky is a troll, and D&B is a bytch.

Hope I challenged them enough, we'll see if any of them are liars and actually respond to me.

Play the game is a gentleman, and he needs to grow a pair of balls. Thats advice only, I'm not challgning him at all.

I love challenges. Two drug dealers and every damned pool player I went up against tonight. If they hit on a girl I'd be right their beside them using dominance techniques to come out on top. get the guy pissed, you win. get the guy to focus on you, you win. get the guy to join your "tribe" you win. TThose are the easiest of the competitions I use ALLLLLLL the time. If you got anything better I challenge you to show me.

I do have to add though that I never randomly choose a person to compete against. I see reason to since it would be a unique challenge, but I have no drive to bother random people, this town is so small, and I'd rather be diplomatic with another guy before I decared war on him. If you got any advice for me on this front I'll gladly take it.
 

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Bonez said:
Play the game is a gentleman, and he needs to grow a pair of balls. Thats advice only, I'm not challenging him at all..
I said i'd deck the guy... how much more balls do i need? :rolleyes:
Obviously i wouldn't be so polite to him as i was in saying that.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
NICE !! i like your style, Play the Game just be careful though hook'upz aint worth getting knifed in the eye or jumped. Alotta kidz don't know how to act these days and can become very sore losers its best to keep a level head than to get your head leveled.
Yeah you gotta watch out for the losers with nothing to lose.
My friend got in a bar fight about a 3 months ago.
All he was doing was looking at some guy's chick. Out of nowhere this guy comes and tries to beat the crap out of him b/c he didn't like the way he was looking at her.This was before i started taking him to the gym, so he was pretty scrawny. Still he smashed a bottle on the guy's head and they got kicked out. Then he ran like fcuking hell lol.

Now that's stupid, starting a fight b/c someone was looking at your gf.

But if some guy is on your turf, you gotta tell him to back off. Otherwise you're just a puzzy.
If a guy told me that's his gf, or he was here first. I'd respect that. You'd be a fool not to, especially if he's bigger than you.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Drum&Bass said:
I don't look at trying to hook up with bytchez as a sport..itz more of a pain..but i realize game is something thats gotta get done if your trying to get a random piece of as$ My ONLY purpose for trying to sweet talk bytchez iz to FUKK and I opt for the least amount of interference to reach my goal
I dunnno, when you'e had as much sex as I have, you have to find reasons for going back out there. I mean I have 3 or 4 girls in my phone that I can call at anytime for sex so that would be the path of least resistance, but where's the fun in that?

I guess gaming girls is more of a sport for me and the pain subsided long ago. Ah well to each his own.
 
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