"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you want that feel?

Thatfeel21

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Listen. It's not that hard. If you want that feel, you gotta walk around with a

chip on your shoulder. Add a slight swag to your step, or drive your car with

a slight lean, just do whatever it takes to feel how you want and need to

feel. Why do you think the Patriots are mudering

teams right now? Of course they are hand picked by God himself, but none of

them make any loud noise off the field, but yet every team admires and

respects them. Even the players who get no playing time whatsoever in New

England still are walking around like their **** doesnt stink. Think about it

Same goes for Biatches. TO get ahead in life, it's not what you

know but it's who you know..For all of you keep-to-yourself-people,

get out there and meet people! I went to a party last weekend, met a few

chicks, but more importantly met A LOT of dudes who know A LOT of chicks.

And since I'm real cool with them, i basically have a head start on THEIR

chicks, feel me? It's all about networking, and I'm not talking myspace.

To succeed with girls you either have to be a jerk or a laid back cool ass

motherfukker. Chicks do not think like we do.

SImply walk up to a chick, (she doesnt even have to look all that good) and

in a key word laid back tone, say whats up. This is probably re-vomited

info, but ive been lurking this site for a while due to a break up..

For all you people out there who are in their mid 20s who've only had 1-3

girlfriends, and have oneitis with a certain chick, get out there and date!!

Whether shes fat, ugly, geeky or whatever, start asking girls out and you'll

soon realize most girls aint ****!


The more girls you begin to mess with, the quicker you'll realize that that 5'2

frame with breasts and a vagina you were sweating, aint **** like

constipation. It's like your first two cars youve ever owned being nissan

sentras. You loved them cars! Key word, loved Then you work your

ass off and soon enough youre driving a Lexus 330. Well soon enough a Lexus

won't seem like **** to you, and youre gonna want to upgrade to an Infiniti or

a BMW. Eventually youre gonna wonder why in the hell you were ever even

driving a nissan sentra.

To get where you need to be at, you gotta start small. Start with chicks

that no guy gives attention to, then use her as a template to start building

yourself up. And as you start dismissing the lower class chicks as if class is

over, then the more attractive chicks will start to take notice of your feel.

As i sit back and let the world spin, I ponder how i will respond to

my future son asking me advice on females. Will i forward him to sosuave.com

like a chain letter for all the answers? Or will i be able to redirect him with

real world advice according to what I have learned myself...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BCOMusic

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u could also just date girls you interested in

and not make women anywhere near a top priority in your life
 

Bvbidd

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BCOMusic that'll never work unless your a really great liar. For both comments. ;)
 

Bunk 040

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Now this was a good post.
 

MooseGod

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There's a difference between being a confident, affable guy with a good head on his shoulders and being a pink-shirt-with-a-popped-collar-and-a-sideways-visor douche. I suggest you find it, and soon.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dilberto

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somebody needs to step away from the pipe.
 
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