"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you value much being able to travel?

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I have to choose between 2 different job offers. One company allows "work from home" whenever desired (if manager is ok with it) and the other company doesn't have this flexibility, but the career growth opportunities here are greater.
Earning in Indian rupees, I most likely can't afford to travel abroad often, but I surely can afford to travel anywhere within the country as often as I like. I could for example travel to Goa for 2-3 weeks, pick up drunk russian/English tourist women in the evenings, and still continue to do office work during the day over the internet connection.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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in short, I want to have the freedom to travel while I am still young. That freedom includes the required time and the appropriate funding to do so.
 

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Dear Are You Single,
I would always choose travel opportunity and the luxury of working from home.....I recently travelled to Goa,Fort Cochin,Mamalapuram,Pondicherry and many points between....I never saw one Russian Lady relatively few foreigners really...Most of the Women,French German and British were Old enough to be my mother,they certainly wern't looking for Indian Lovers,maybe a bit of stray from other travellers for the younger ones...certainly svx with the locals wasn't a priority...European Ladies with the penchant for toy boys go to the Caribbean or East Africa.
 

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It's my dream to have a job where I can travel.

I would love to be a IT contractor where I traveled across the U.S. staying in each city a couple of weeks or so.
 

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Travel while your young and have no responsibilities. Even if its only a year or two it will way more interesting than a year or two at home or in a dank office everyday. :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Are You Single,
I recently travelled to Goa,Fort Cochin,Mamalapuram,Pondicherry and many points between....I never saw one Russian Lady relatively few foreigners really...
...European Ladies with the penchant for toy boys go to the Caribbean or East Africa.
That's disappointing. I had never been to Goa but only read on the internet that a lot of Russian tourists go there and that they might be easy to lay.
So should I take up the other job then, where I must only work from office but career growth is better? I have no interest in travelling if not for getting laid.
I work in Bangalore and there is a large expat population here also but the few European women I approached here acted indifferent.
 

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If they pay your travel expenses then definitely take the travel job. I'm shocked at how many people I see on FB who never left my hometown.

Even my (outdoor) cat saw 33 US States and traveled 13,000 miles by my side.
 
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