Do you tolerate chicks that are dating multiple men?

[Clockwerk50]

I got something out of it.

what do you actually think true masculinity is THROUGH THE EYES OF WOMEN?
Science does not explain it. How could they? Women can’t even explain it.
What I wrote was very clear. When you don’t care about her at all, her attraction grows. She doesn’t care about money, six pack or anything else. You have high SMV in her perception at that time. You could be a broke dad bod dumpster fire. Yet neither her friends or mother can shut her down.
Explain it. Science doesn’t teach men anything about controlling their own biology. it’s not about the woman. Riches, an Olympic body, nothing will fix you. She will still sneak off and sleep with the man who absolutely cares nothing for her. Especially if he’s a dumpster fire. In fact, the smarter you are (or seem to be) the less she will like you.

Caring nothing for her only works when it’s backed by a baseline level of attraction, whether that’s looks, status, or charisma. If indifference alone triggered desire, then every checked-out, invisible guy would be irresistible, which clearly isn’t the case. As noted in the thread, it’s about calibration: once a woman is already attracted, not chasing can increase her interest. But without that initial SMV, without something for her to latch onto, aloofness just comes off as low value or socially unaware. Again, as someone pointed out, “If it’s ONLY about not trying too hard, then every incel who’s given up would be insanely attractive.”

Women are attracted to men who don't try too hard. A double-edged sword?

I understand what this woman is saying here, but isn't this a double-edged sword sometimes? In particular, you act indifferent or aloof too much around a woman you are attracted to because you are trying not to try too hard She might mistakenly belief you are not interested or are too shy to...

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explain that and SMV for me again. Full of disgust? Are you a girl? I LOVE women and have zero emotion concerning this. What good would it do? I love women for what they are. Not what I think they should be or what poindexter in a biology lab thinks. Practical application of knowledge and wisdom trumps thought or dogma. I was trying to have a rational discussion. How does all that you wrote, though analytical and pragmatic, help the average man learn to control his own biology on one hand and help him take advantage of the circuits of a woman’s biology? And they are circuits. And they are identical from woman to woman.
perhaps you are the wrong person to have a discussion with. You already know it all. if you think women are naturally or fundamentally more monogamous, you are whistling past the graveyard.

If she’s not investing her emotional energy in you, she’s probably giving it to someone else. This is due to the fact that you’re not her top choice; maybe you never were. She’s detaching, lining up options, or about to ghost you entirely. Again, women tend to be sexually monogamous by nature, but only with the man they’re most emotionally drawn to. If that’s no longer you, her interest has dropped, shifted, was never there to begin with, or been overtaken by someone or something who triggers her emotional circuitry more strongly.

This is especially important to recognize early in dating, as it helps gauge where you stand on her hypergamous ladder and whether you’re wasting your time.Women may entertain multiple options emotionally, but they invest sexually and emotionally in the one they’ve truly chosen. This is how my information helps.

 

[Beyond It]

Caring nothing for her only works when it’s backed by a baseline level of attraction, whether that’s looks, status, or charisma. If indifference alone triggered desire, then every checked-out, invisible guy would be irresistible, which clearly isn’t the case. As noted in the thread, it’s about calibration: once a woman is already attracted, not chasing can increase her interest. But without that initial SMV, without something for her to latch onto, aloofness just comes off as low value or socially unaware. Again, as someone pointed out, “If it’s ONLY about not trying too hard, then every incel who’s given up would be insanely attractive.”

Women are attracted to men who don't try too hard. A double-edged sword?

I understand what this woman is saying here, but isn't this a double-edged sword sometimes? In particular, you act indifferent or aloof too much around a woman you are attracted to because you are trying not to try too hard She might mistakenly belief you are not interested or are too shy to...

www.sosuave.net

If she’s not investing her emotional energy in you, she’s probably giving it to someone else. This is due to the fact that you’re not her top choice; maybe you never were. She’s detaching, lining up options, or about to ghost you entirely. Again, women tend to be sexually monogamous by nature, but only with the man they’re most emotionally drawn to. If that’s no longer you, her interest has dropped, shifted, was never there to begin with, or been overtaken by someone or something who triggers her emotional circuitry more strongly.

This is especially important to recognize early in dating, as it helps gauge where you stand on her hypergamous ladder and whether you’re wasting your time.Women may entertain multiple options emotionally, but they invest sexually and emotionally in the one they’ve truly chosen. This is how my information helps.

The more complex the idea, the less one actually understands. Life is simplicity.
you can’t act indifference. You will telegraph your position to a social master. You have to not care if you ever see her again. She absolutely cannot stand it.
That is abundance. This is why the girl you don’t want will sleep with you in a heart beat.