You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I know a doctor like that. He even opened a club here to try and get women. Lots of women used him for his money and connections..so did a lot of shady people. But then again that's the way he presented himself. He tried to buy affection instead of having game. He tried to buy status and acceptance from people. I'm pretty poor by comparison and he would always make jokes about my income, I would make jokes about his golddiggers. He's still single and still chasing after women like he was tiger woods.nismo-4 said:Your job can be really helpful, especially if you're making 6+ figures!
Your job can bring money, and extra points if you're a CEO.
And @ Lexington, there are successful doctors who couldn't get laid to save their lives? Goddamn! They make 6 figures and drive Mercedes Benzes! WTF! All I can say is wow.
The more successful you are, the more hot women you can get easily. By easily I mean where these women allow you to bypass sh*t tests and flaking. You will become high priority.
Case closed.