"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you think womyn really feel "relief" at becoming old enough to be "completely uninteresting to men"?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
So cringe to try to read another 'I'm a victim' piece about women.

Some specific items are interesting. I heard about the blind orchestra hiring but I hadn't heard of the doubleblind female authored academia papers.
I read yesterday about a fellow sosuave member's goal to drink 2 litres of water a day and feel I can't do that during my workday as its not acceptable for me to take a whizz anywhere unless I had one of those devices from the outdoors store that mimics a penis.


Also, I have wondered why there's so little research on skene's glands and also, the most help I've received with female health has been from other females and even then it was imperative to be assertive and game them a bit. I now worry about a prolapsed vagina, wish the article hadn't reminded me.

It is alarming that not once does the article throw shame on women for not taking responsibility by getting into engineering and design more. Encouraging women to be inventors.
That 'amightygirl.com' feed I get to emails is a source for teaching about the history of women inventors and builders.
 
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Do you think womyn really feel "relief" at becoming old enough to be "completely uninteresting to men"?
Older women are envious of their younger "sisters" including/even at their daughters which gets all the attention of males and they hate it.
They crave for the attention like the dying is clinging to their last seconds of life wishing they had more; but since the male attention is now gone, some even become bitter over time due to the now non existing attention they once used to have.
 

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If the programmers that programmed womens minds where the same ones that programmed nuclear sites safety systems, we would all be living in a fallout style environment.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When a woman sounds likes she is complaining about the attention she gets, she´s really bragging.
This is so common on LinkedIn. 30s/40s women will often make posts complaining about flirtatious messages they receive. I've never seen a 20 something on LinkedIn complain.
 

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This is so common on LinkedIn. 30s/40s women will often make posts complaining about flirtatious messages they receive. I've never seen a 20 something on LinkedIn complain.
Haha. It's funny how women complain about stuff like this, yet at the same time they say "it's a man's job to approach a woman".

Men are going to approach women wherever they are because if they don't, they'll never meet anyone. Men don't have the luxury of just sitting around waiting for things to come to us.
 

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Haha. It's funny how women complain about stuff like this, yet at the same time they say "it's a man's job to approach a woman".

Men are going to approach women wherever they are because if they don't, they'll never meet anyone. Men don't have the luxury of just sitting around waiting for things to come to us.
I've been approached by women less than 5 times in 20+ years of dating/relationships. Bumble doesn't count as being approached either.
 

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Wow, that article is painful. I swear, the current goal of western culture is to divide everybody into various victim groups who can sit around complaining and feeling sorry for themselves.

That said, I remember when I got into my 30s, I felt a certain relief. It seemed like when I was in my 20s, there was a huge pressure to be hot. Getting into my 30s meant those expectations weren't there so much. I was a little off base on all that, but there was a grain or two of truth to it. So I could see how women might feel a little relieved not to feel like they were constantly being evaluated on their value as sex objects so much anymore. That doesn't mean they don't also miss being so young and desirable, but I'm sure there's a part of them that doesn't.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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