Do you think women's desire to go to gay bars is really just a way to disrespect heterosexual men?

[MatureDJ]

I reading about this gay bar in Berlin that evidently has heterosexual tourists from all over the world want to visit:

https://www.rollingstone.com/cultur...-fueled-world-of-technos-coolest-club-111396/

I've somewhat noticed this trend in my city (which is also very touristy, and has one of the larger, and certainly well-known, gay communities in the USA) for quite some time, in as much as I could pick in casual conversion about town.

my opinion: I am sure that the female tourists want to go to the happeningist gay bar in the world, and their weenie boyfriends/husbands just acquiesced.

 

[Spaz]

Well, if there was a lesbian bar, I'd probably want to test my prowess there.

All those chicks and no men ?

I'll start off the conversation with a lesbian by saying; hi, we both have something in common, I'm a lesbian stuck in a man's body, let's explore this unique opportunity

 

[zekko]

Females do seem unusally fascinated with gay bars, and gay men. It's odd that they will so despise a normal man who lacks masculinity, but fully embrace a feminine male who is gay. Some might even have sex with him, or give him a BJ or a handjob at least.

Well, if there was a lesbian bar, I'd probably want to test my prowess there.

I've known many women who swore they were lesbians, only to end up married to some dude. I've known more who were lifelong lesbians, but there are some who definitely flip flop.

 

[devilkingx2]

It's a good thing that the ones who won't be any fun (actively avoiding men for whatever reason) filter themselves out for you.

 

[marmel75]

No. They simply feel safe and know they can have fun there without having to worry about getting hit on. Gay men many times act more like women than women do and they are usually very fun to be around. So its no secret why they like hanging out with them.

 

[AJ84]

No. They simply feel safe and know they can have fun there without having to worry about getting hit on. Gay men many times act more like women than women do and they are usually very fun to be around. So its no secret why they like hanging out with them.

That. Women’s behaviour isn’t always about how to disrepect heterosexual men. Like many of you, we have things we like to do that have nothing to do with dating or hooking up .

 

[Who Dares Win]

Women just want to go where other people gather for a purpose despite have nothing to do with it be it a gay bar, the gentlemen country club or the marine corps.

"let me in" comes right after "look at me" for most of them.

 

[zekko]

No. They simply feel safe and know they can have fun there without having to worry about getting hit on. Gay men many times act more like women than women do and they are usually very fun to be around

You make a good point. But it makes wonder what it is about being gay that makes them tend to be "fun to be around"?

 

[marmel75]

You make a good point. But it makes wonder what it is about being gay that makes them tend to be "fun to be around"?

Not all of them but many of them are "the life of the party" and really outgoing, friendly and have IDAGF personalities that allows them to do crazy things

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Perspective from an attractive woman hanging out in a regular bar/club

90% of the beta fag dudes are laughably awkward and just plain bizarre.. gay dudes aren’t like that and “just want to have fun”

Try being an attractive guy (I’m sexy walking into a gay bar and feel the weirdness of the gay dudes, you’ll find yourself avoiding eye contact, being timid and shy talking to strangers, because well.. you just get the feeling the way their acting is as if they want to probe you with their wiener and tell all their friends about it. Women go through the same vice versa.

Understand this dynamic, go out and joke with girls your gaming about it, massive ammo to get relatability and pulls

-chev

 

[MatureDJ]

Well, if there was a lesbian bar, I'd probably want to test my prowess there.

This reminds of a time in the '90s when I was "out on the town" and every place just seemed to be the worst pork sausage fest imaginable: sausage and PIG women , and while I was driving around, I noticed a place I hadn't noticed before and there were actually non-fat women hanging outside, so of course, I decided to check it out. I had been a while since I had seen a fair number of attractive women, and so few men, at a nightspot (lots of "lipstick lesbians" that were actually quite bangable ), but I noticed that these chicks were quite "friendly" with battleaxe butch heifers. Then I recalled that the name was "Rainbows", and it became all clear to me.