"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think women whose men have become a "househusband" lose sexual attraction for them?

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Funny, how in Norway... country next to Sweden: the gender equality country of the world... they published a story that showed... the more the man was involved in house shore...

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/wor...k-are-more-likely-to-divorce-study-finds.html

True, the middle class have crashed thus increasing the need for both parents to work and with society evolution... women are more ''equal'' than man in every aspect.

If manual labor was important or valorized now... sure the ''alpha male would come back'' however, I believe we going back to the caveman... strongest will survice only
Interesting article!

Society has changed immensely over the past 50-100 years, with equality for everyone being at the center of this change.

50-100 years ago a woman was shunned socially if she got divorced, she was seen as 'bad goods'. Now it is socially accepted and roughly half of all marriages end in divorce. Men had more value than women as they were more often than not the breadwinner & if they walked away, the woman stood to be left with nothing.

If you are a breadwinner in either a marriage or relationship with kids now, you are vulnerable as hell! You could wind up supporting your ex financially for the rest of her life.

This leads to hook up culture, branch swinging etc etc. Men simply do not have leverage over women like they used to.

If I were to get married, I would insist on a water tight pre-nup that is fair for both of us. It is suicide not to do that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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