Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you think women whose men have become a "househusband" lose sexual attraction for them?

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Funny, how in Norway... country next to Sweden: the gender equality country of the world... they published a story that showed... the more the man was involved in house shore...

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/wor...k-are-more-likely-to-divorce-study-finds.html

True, the middle class have crashed thus increasing the need for both parents to work and with society evolution... women are more ''equal'' than man in every aspect.

If manual labor was important or valorized now... sure the ''alpha male would come back'' however, I believe we going back to the caveman... strongest will survice only
Interesting article!

Society has changed immensely over the past 50-100 years, with equality for everyone being at the center of this change.

50-100 years ago a woman was shunned socially if she got divorced, she was seen as 'bad goods'. Now it is socially accepted and roughly half of all marriages end in divorce. Men had more value than women as they were more often than not the breadwinner & if they walked away, the woman stood to be left with nothing.

If you are a breadwinner in either a marriage or relationship with kids now, you are vulnerable as hell! You could wind up supporting your ex financially for the rest of her life.

This leads to hook up culture, branch swinging etc etc. Men simply do not have leverage over women like they used to.

If I were to get married, I would insist on a water tight pre-nup that is fair for both of us. It is suicide not to do that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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