"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you think women view a sp3rm donation clinic the way men view a brothel?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2018/aug/15/americas-hottest-export-sperm-fertility
Her fertility center gave her the password to a protected site – the catalogue. It contained a mix of Australian and American men. “Go and have fun with it,” the andrologist suggested. “Invite your girlfriends around, have some wine and cheese, and choose a donor.”
How would this be different than:
His brothel gave him the password to a protected site – the catalogue. It contained a mix of blonde and brunette women. “Go and have fun with it,” the pimp suggested. “Invite your buddies around, have some beer, and choose a girl.”
This is a certain yin & yang, complementary relationship here between these 2 activities.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can see some similarities.

But go to a girls night at a strip club and you will see hypergamy
They just go crazy from what ppl told.me
 

zekko

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I definitely see some similarities.
In both cases, the decisions are made without any regard to the emotions of the person providing the service.
Not saying there should be, mind you, but that's a big parallel.
 

Who Dares Win

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Basically its someone paying to get something above the max level avabilable.

Just like an average guy cant bang a blonde bombshell, an average woman cant get a top dog to make her pregnat..at least not with the conseguences of it.

The only different is that the brothel is among two consenting adults, the female option of course its all about her with no regard to the kid missing the father.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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