I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Then you find someone else....
True . Alot of guys are committed to wives who don't really care about them. Sex is not that hard.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Trapped...
In one of my forums we had a Chippendales built 210 lbs 6'3" suave guy, well dressed, etc. All the ladies loved him, but he wanted his spoiled b1tch Latina wife who got off on holding out.
The women who SHUT their mens sexlives and their cawks down HATE Viagra.
Oxymoron?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Even if their lube was perfect and they have desire they would'nt do it because they are getting off on the power differential. They got their kids out of him and they get the Support and $$$ they wanted.
Yea, it's a shame. Once, I believe marriage and relationships were partnerships. Now, going through it, I know the truth. #WINNING.
In their mind they know it's slavery. God bless those 3% of women who treat their husbands like Kings .Yea, it's a shame. Once, I believe marriage and relationships were partnerships. Now, going through it, I know the truth. #WINNING.
I swear, I almost bought this for our wedding cake. I was surprised she didn't think it was funny.
I think it is a myth (the 3%). They just turn into open marriages, or they do not like sex. I couldn't do it. I do not know how men under 60 do.
I had two great wives then the third was the normal "American" offering. I always thought the other guys were exaggerating . Good women exist. They will tend to not be overly social and won't be a "hot girl".
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
They're fine til they start demanding or marriage. If you do not put them in place or show them the door, you'll have problems with the Americanized Woman. It's kinda like the Africanized Bee. Soon as they are introduced to a foreign species, they ruin it for everyone. A shame.