Do you think wives who don't put out do so because their husbands are weenies?

[MatureDJ]

I was watching this video, and I got thinking ...

http://live.wsj.com/video/how-much-...les/9F1E7553-0613-4B2C-8B43-2E223A6ABD6E.html

... it seems that the guy in the video was spending too much time trying to assuage his wive's "feelings", whereas he should have just put the hammer down and DEMANDED that he be sexually satisfied - as his toughness would have made her respond appropriately, with the "feelings" getting taken care of naturally.

 

[expos]

I was watching this video, and I got thinking ...

http://live.wsj.com/video/how-much-...les/9F1E7553-0613-4B2C-8B43-2E223A6ABD6E.html

... it seems that the guy in the video was spending too much time trying to assuage his wive's "feelings", whereas he should have just put the hammer down and DEMANDED that he be sexually satisfied - as his toughness would have made her respond appropriately, with the "feelings" getting taken care of naturally.

Who the hell knows, to be honest. There are so many different factors that kill a sex life in a marriage. Being a weenie is probably one of them if the wife ultimately desired someone more masculine.

I actually had a conversation with a close friend who is actually dealing with a lack of sex drive. His wife wants sex, but he doesn't. He stated that his wife pisses him off and gets confrontational often, and he has hard time being affectionate for someone who gets on his case. And don't think for a second this guy is a passive weenie - he's a great athlete, a project manager, does community work, social, etc.

In his words, "I don't feel like I should reward my wife for the conflict she likes to create". That sounds pretty alpha to me.

 

[PlayHer Man]

I'll just quote a post from another thread. It basically sums it all up:

Once a women marries and/or has a baby with a man

the man becomes her slave sanctioned by law

Once a woman has secured a man, she owns him...she has no obligation to please him anymore

and gradually she won't

men think there is something they can do to *reverse* this situation

once he marries or has a child there is not