"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think wives saying they want to cheat but stay with husband want to cucklold?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article and it got me thinking ...

http://www.slate.com/articles/doubl..._happy_marriages_cheat_and_americans_don.html

... in surveys that ask adulterers whether they want to leave their marriages, the majority say no. Her book, still very much a work in progress, will be about “people who love each other and are having affairs,” she says, and what that paradox says about the rest of our marriages.
my opinion: I can only think of one reason why a fertile wife would cheat on her husband - to have him raise & nurture another (presumably more alpha) man's child as his own. :cuss:

(I could see a wife whose husband "can't man up" cheating, but that's a servicing issue that the husband is unable to perform.)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interesting...
 
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Hmmm

Google up Kimberley Quinn.

Multimillionaire AFC husband openly raises her children by two different affairs.
 
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