Do you think this near-harridan is being too picky by rejecting a bald man?

[MatureDJ]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/...birth_mother_wants_nothing_to_do_with_me.html

I am a 31-year-old American Jewish woman who has been studying veterinary medicine and working in London for the past several years. I am ready to start a family. I recently ended a casual relationship with a man I desperately loved, but who wasn’t ready to commit. Enter David, a tall, blue-eyed Jewish doctor I would be proud to introduce to my family (the antithesis of the dark, hipster man I still think about). David is sweet and kind and everything I could ask for, on paper. We are a couple of months in and he wants to meet my mom, but I'm scared my family will love him so much I will be pressured into marrying him. Here’s my problem: He's bald. When we have sex it just sometimes feels like I'm banging an infant or grandpa and I get weirded out. I have never imagined being with a bald man for the rest of my life. I'd also like him to work out more than he does—I’m a workout junkie. All superficial things, but isn't passion and attraction an essential ingredient to a happy relationship? How do I improve a man without demoralizing his ego? How do I get past the baldness without resorting to asking him to wear a hat?

My opinion: She should be lucky that her almost overripe eggs can still attract a man to begin with (and a TALL Jewish doctor at that!) I sense a woman who will be complaining in a few years about how there are no "good men".

 

[3countriesPlan]

She will marry him and be revolted each time he plows her causing her to book tickets for herself to some other European country every few months or so so that she can find some local dudes.. I'm guessing she will pick somewhere down south -- the guy she is with is settling for way too little (shes over the hill) and is being deceived as I'm sure he'd upgrade to something better if he read what she is thinking ----

 

[Nutz]

She likes him on paper, but they don't have chemistry. This is what happens a lot these days, women NEED to settle down and get commitment from some schlub to afford them the chance to have kids and fulfill their body agenda, and what happens next is the woman divorce the guy and take him to the cleaners. If this woman stays with this guy, that's likely what is going to happen. Marriage --> Kids --> Divorce.

 

[Mike32ct]

She likes him on paper, but they don't have chemistry. This is what happens a lot these days, women NEED to settle down and get commitment from some schlub to afford them the chance to have kids and fulfill their body agenda, and what happens next is the woman divorce the guy and take him to the cleaners. If this woman stays with this guy, that's likely what is going to happen. Marriage --> Kids --> Divorce.

Exactly. I think a lot of divorces are due to women marrying a guy that isn't her physical type.

Regardless, he's a doctor. He could do way better anyway. Plenty of women would love a bald doctor.

Off on another tangent:

We don't know if he lost pretty much all his hair or shaved it clean because of some hair loss. There is this standard one-size-fits-all advice that ALL guys that are balding should shave their head clean. While that is often good advice, some guys look better with some (fairly short) hair, despite the balding. Mr. C l ean doesn't work for every guy.

 

[Burroughs]

Until men like this *David bald jew doctor*...start saying fvck these uppity middle class biyaches and start finding hawt strippers...cvm on their faces...rinse and repeat these schmucks will get taken to the cleaners.

men in 2013 have to stop looking for surrogate mommies

and treat women like fvcktoys

Men have to stop being morons and understand when women are using them as PROVIDERS

 

[Bible_Belt]

Taking a line from the old David DeAngelo material, "attraction isn't a choice."

 

[sodbuster]

31 and still in vet school? She should have been done at age 25....wonder what/who she was doing for those missing 6 years. Entirely possible she went to school to appear "worthy" of a doctor...so she could retire with her MRS

 

[Bokanovsky]

Until men like this *David bald jew doctor*...start saying fvck these uppity middle class biyaches and start finding hawt strippers...cvm on their faces...rinse and repeat these schmucks will get taken to the cleaners.

I don't think a stripper would be particularly interested in dating a "nice guy balding doctor" (unless he was willing to risk his license and supply her with drugs...) Having a high status job ain't what it used to be. Just because the guy is a doctor does not mean that he's got hot b*tches lined up waiting to jump on his c0ck. And that is especially true in places like NYC, where rich guys are a dime a dozen.