MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Do you think this man had lost his frame?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
GhostOfCordon
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I was just on that ship in may.....the emerald princess. Had a great time. I don't believe he lost his frame and I doubt if her laughing at him was the real cause. My guess is they were drunk (we drank everyday on the cruise) and they started fighting. Who knows over what. If I had to guess it might have been she was cheating and she was rubbing it in his face and laughing about it.
Goes to show you what alcohol and a simple fight can lead to. What's funny is that ship is not at all rowdy. It's first class....and huge....but in no way would I call it a party boat.
Goes to show you what alcohol and a simple fight can lead to. What's funny is that ship is not at all rowdy. It's first class....and huge....but in no way would I call it a party boat.