"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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do you think this is ****y or arrogant?

wildchild

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Say for example your out with a girl and she says "how do i look" and you reply "better with the lights out" is that ****y or just arrogant?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gangster Of Love

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Originally posted by wildchild
Say for example your out with a girl and she says "how do i look" and you reply "better with the lights out" is that ****y or just arrogant?
That is what is called in the sport as "****y/Dumbass."
 

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She's fishing for a compliment (obviously) so if you want to do something besides give her what she wants, try the following...

Girl: How do I look?
Guy: Wow, I love your dress, it's really pretty!
She'll be wondering what's wrong with herself.
Guy: Yeah, my aunt has one just like it.

Just say it with a grin.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kidd

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Originally posted by rgeere
No, it means you arn't getting laid by her ...
i laughed
 

wildchild

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I thought it was a bit forward but i said it to a girl when i was out one night and she just burst out laughing at it.
 

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Wow...
I can only really see it working with some decent rapport already established, and a girl with some shreds of self-esteem.
 

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wow, a lot of girls would be offended by tghat.

that's malenese implying "you're ugly/it looks bad, but you look less ugly/bad with dim lights"

that would probably work better as a neg hit
 

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I could see that working both ways.

Its really one of those situational C&F things so use it when the time is right.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ShizamDaMan

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I remember last year I was in class, the night before this girl said she was going to dress really sexy for me. I get in there and it's the same **** she wears every day.

The lights were off for a while, as we lined up to get to the door for the end of class I say "Well I gotta admit Laura, you did look pretty hot for a second with the lights off."

Jaws dropped all around, I got a playful punch in the arm. I just smiled and waited for class to be out.

It's all about delivery.
 

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Originally posted by Kidd
i laughed
i laughed i cried i made a post about it
 

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ShizamDaMan, I like that one :D
Like everyone else said I probably wouldnt use it on a girl I just met, gotta have some rapport with her. But i'm sure if you used it right it would be pretty funny.
 

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yeah i reckon it is good if you use it on a girl you have already built some rapport with like maybe on the 3rd date when u wanna get her in the sack
 

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hahha thats not as bad as 1 i used

i was walkin into a night club with a friend and this gurl

me and my friend walked in and she stopped and talked to 1 of the bouncers

when she caught up with us

me: do you know that bouncer?
her: yeh i know both bouncers and a bar man
me fuc(k)in hell uve been around aint ya!


i mainly did it to crack my friend up laughin, but she just laughed and gave me a playful slap, i knew she was into me any way so i knew she wudnt b to offended.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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