"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you think this guy can overcome his difficiencies in being ethnic & blue-collar?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I also know more white collar men who are incel/borderline incel. This might be a function of me knowing more white collar people.
The STEM major/STEM occupation males often get white collar jobs and are incel/borderline incel.
Blue collar guys do manage to find ways to get laid.
That foreign guy seems like an old creepy guy. That was a viral joke ad. The ad was made 10 years ago and the shop has been closed for at least 4 years.
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I thought white collar men were more likely to be blue pill and more likely to be simps than a blue collar man.
A lot of the white collar men who are single in their 30s are men rejected by women. They aren't single by choice. Most are vagina beggars.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
CornbreadFed
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Lol no, blue collar men are some of the worst simp vagina beggars in existence. Think about it, white collar men have experienced hypergamy in college/post college and have a more selection of women to choose from. I am not saying white collar men aren't beta males, but exposure alone puts them at a higher experience level than your average blue collar male. Blue Collar men tend to only date within their social circle and get married way sooner due to scarcity and inexperience. Picture the typical enlisted soldier that gets married at a young age to get the barracks benefits. Another example is I recently hungout with my HS buddies from back home. The guys that didn't go to college didn't know how a girl can ran through at a frat house and dust herself out and look like an innocent good girl afterwards. Blue collar men are also going to be more vulnerable to toxic women with tattoos, single moms, and etc.
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He needs to lay off the kabobs and basmati and hit the gym, before any further discussion goes on.