"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do You Think This Girl Is Too Picky???

dadmonson

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This is who she would like in a guy...


Initially this was more like a description of my "dream guy", but if you exclude all the superficial stuff, the character description applies just as well to friends, and generally the kind of people that I like and click with. Superficial things first, so that we are done with them: I prefer tall (6'3 or taller), well-built men who are in shape. I'm not into metrosexuals or babyfaces, I like a man with chiseled looks, a face that I like to look at when I wake up in the morning. I hope this does not sound awkward, but a few scars are also quite sexy - because they show (I'm romanticizing now!) that he's lived a life full of dangers and adventures. :) You want some examples? Well, let's say...men who look like the young Clint Eastwood (he has a very deep, dark and sexy voice too!), Bruce Willis, Josh Holloway (Sawyer from Lost), Eric Bana or as an epitome of my dream guy when it comes solely to physical things: Dwayne Johnson (aka The Rock). He has something dark and mysterious about him (which I like in a man), yet also a certain vulnerabilty and a cute smile - killer combo! :) But style is nothing without substance. A beautiful character has the advantage that its beauty does not fade with age like physical beauty always does (you only get so far with your looks!). There are a few things that are important to me. Treating others with respect, dignity (degrading others never grades you up as a person), courtesy of course. Those are the absolute basics in our interacting with others, yet many people can't even follow those few simple implicitnesses. I like people who are straightforward and speak up their mind. I'm not into playing games, and I don't like hypocrites or bootlickers either. This concerns men especially, because few men have the guts to confront a beautiful woman with things she does not want to hear, or who are able to say "No!" when she wants something. To me this is important, because such people keep you well grounded and prevent you from thinking that you're better than anyone else. Straightforward people are also more loyal and upright, and that's a necessity in both friendships and romantic relationships. After all, trustfulness must be earned! Intelligence is of major importance too, it makes someone all the more attractive and interesting. It's important to me to have people who are on the same level when it comes to intelligence and education - because I need someone to talk to about my feelings or things that affect and concern me. Plus, an intelligent, versatile and somewhat mysterious character is magnetic, much more than a beautiful body alone ever can be. Men that I find attractive also need to be romantics at heart. I don't want an iceberg or someone who always keeps cool and is insensitive. He needs to be in accord with his feelings, and should know who he is, what he has to give and what he wants in life. A charming handling of the other sex is also vital - of course this applies to women too! If someone is at ease and relaxed, yet you have the feeling that he's got everything "under control" that's very erotic. In the end I don't like apathetic persons, but people who love adventure and some action, who don't sit at home all the time but are outgoing and full of life. The crucial question is: Why am I here on myspace? To be honest, I don't know yet. I'm completely new to this thing and figured out it was a cool way to interact with people from all over the world. I'm not here for dating, though my description may look like a personal advertisment. :) What I said about my wishes when it comes to a romantic relationship also applies to people in general. Feel free to contact me if you are looking for an interesting conversation or want to share some thoughts. I'm up for this if I feel there is a connection, but I'm new here and just want to experiment a bit.
How many of you fit this discription???

Also do you think the girl that typed this up is hot???? I know you don't have a picture but just take a guess.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aragon034

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Well, i wonder how many guys she's been with that WEREN'T her dream guy.

"Why am I here on myspace?"

" but I'm new here and just want to experiment a bit."

^ Those are big markers to me, lets interpret what she's saying.

"Yeah, here's the description of my dream guy, But no, you aren't it so i'm not going to date you, but you might have a few qualities so i might be your friend. And take any attention you give me. I've heard of this MySpaz thingy and i think i'd be good at it! And no, i'm not here to date, but i wanted you to know you aren't my dream guy so you can msg me over and over again telling me why you think you are. Gawd i just don't know what i'm doing here, i just wanna see what this whole thing is like! So i'll tell you that i'm here to meet new people. but unless you meet these demands, you don't have a chance."

since its Myspace, i'd just write her off as an attention *****. If i knew her personally... well that's different.
 

DJDamage

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The funny thing about women like this is that they tend to party hard in their 20's and fvck guys left and right while waiting for that illusive "dream guy" that doesn't even exists.

Then when they hit their 30's they panic and marry the first ugly dumb fvck that come's their way.

Sad but true.
 
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