"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you think this girl is going to cave in for this?

The Pedantical

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I found something interesting on Yahoo about a girl who's complaining about how a guy keeps making inappropriate advances to her and how she doesn't know what to do, but it kinda struck me as odd how come she remained friends with him. From the text it seems to me she's saying she doesn't like that kind of behavior and that she's scared by it, but I'm not sure since women sometimes don't really say what they mean.

I'll leave it for you guys to judge:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070103065304AAQGmz7

Do you think she's in denial and she actually wants to sleep with that guy, or is do you think she genuinely doesn't like it? Sometimes it's difficult to draw the line between what's acceptable and what's not.

Peace.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think this girl likes the idea of having a "thug" for a pal to give her social proof. What she doesn't realize is that she could get into a situation that she isn't going to like. She should DUMP thug-man and stick with her boyfriend.

I doubt she will...doesn't sound too bright.
 

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The Pedantical said:
I found something interesting on Yahoo about a girl who's complaining about how a guy keeps making inappropriate advances to her and how she doesn't know what to do, but it kinda struck me as odd how come she remained friends with him. From the text it seems to me she's saying she doesn't like that kind of behavior and that she's scared by it, but I'm not sure since women sometimes don't really say what they mean.

I'll leave it for you guys to judge:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070103065304AAQGmz7

Do you think she's in denial and she actually wants to sleep with that guy, or is do you think she genuinely doesn't like it? Sometimes it's difficult to draw the line between what's acceptable and what's not.

Peace.
I doubt this thug man as changed that much, maybe I will admit he has amplified what he was doing all along.

The only person at fault here is this attention Who** in truth, she obviously likes the attention, asking on a forum for advice when she as constructed this is pretty silly really.

Cant see anyone rapping her over it and I imagine that site is a bit prissy to take constructive TRUTH and turn it into abuse, i.e report this abusive post button under the threads, pointless even making an accurate assessment on that site.

She is simply an attention whor** who is getting her attention met by this thug character, any decent respecting women would have known what to do along time ago and not got it to this stage.

Bright I don’t think its anything to do with! Attention, this is a classic case of dic* in a glas* case that Chris Rock spoke about, but the problem is, it is not on her terms, the guy is pushing the boundaries of comfort for her, but it was fine having him around prior.

Double standard’s or what?

The BF should have dumped this biatch along time ago, instead of allowing this women to turn him into a THUG and a controlling jerk.

Women like this don’t change!

This thug may go but he will only be replaced by some other coc* in a box on her terms.

Its pritty clear what should be done.

the fact her BF has to interviene proves this guy as not crossed the realms of peeing her of, which in fairness was passed ALONG time ago, so it only illustrates this women or girl actually likes the attention since she is only taking action from motivation from the BF and people on a forum.


I hope the BF wises up to this women and drops her pritty dam fast, also imagine if he would not have objected, what stage could it have gone.

Also the BF would know about the situation from HER, so why did she not do the right thing and cut ties instead of creating drama by telling the BF and still keeping the guy as a mate.

This women is an attention whor* and a drama queen.
 
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