"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think these young women would make good future wives?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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piranha45

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i think fairshake said it well.

What a joke of an article, I can't believe there are places where something so benign can make headlines.
In LA or NY you get x number of murders a day, and at this place posting benign pictures on myspace ravages the town. hahaha, wow. but that's not all; one of them said Shut Up to a teacher... OMG@!!
 

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FairShake said:
I'm a completely different person than I was at 17. Law-abiding, positive, and goal-oriented. I could care less what someone I date did when they were teenagers. I care what they are doing and where they are going.
Unfortunately most women tend to stay the same, its only circumstances such as getting older and losing their sexual marketability that makes them decide to 'tone it down' in order to find some chump to believe their holiest of holy new found attitude and marry them. Do you honestly believe that women who had run the train and got fvcked by as many guys as an entire roster of a football team, will not be affected by this as they grow older?! I think it was Pook who once said that the more sexual partners a man has the more normal he becomes while the opposite is true for women and I happen to agree with him.

Let me fix the question a bit:

MatureDJ said:
Do you think the majority of young women today would make good future wives?
Hell no!
 

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... and here is how they got away with it:

By many accounts, the group of cheerleaders, known as the "Fab Five," were out of control... the Fab Five's alleged ringleader was the daughter of McKinney North's principal, Linda Theret... The girls were apparently just as ornery in their cheerleading activities, leading five coaches to quit in the last three years.
I did like this in the comments section.

f*ck em. they will grow up to be nothing but entitled *****s that think the world owes them fame/money/respect/power. and the only people they will have to blame (or thank, depending on your point of view) in the end is the horsesh!t parents that reered them. nice job mom, your daughter is a selfish, dependent, immature, b!tch. what a waste, these girls could be so much more. like high paid escorts or something.
:crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDamage said:
Unfortunately most women tend to stay the same, its only circumstances such as getting older and losing their sexual marketability that makes them decide to 'tone it down' in order to find some chump to believe their holiest of holy new found attitude and marry them. Do you honestly believe that women who had run the train and got fvcked by as many guys as an entire roster of a football team, will not be affected by this as they grow older?! I think it was Pook who once said that the more sexual partners a man has the more normal he becomes while the opposite is true for women and I happen to agree with him.
What he said..because DJ is right once again.

Women have always done what worked for them ( and I should include men in that too) and will continue to do so while ever they ara NOT held to account, or they are rewarded for their poor behavior in some way.
 

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For the he11 of it I joined the Christian site advertized here- got in and saw a girl with 2 kids,never married on the site[I know her,small town]. NOW she's all pure and innocent? Immaculate conception,twice? Slut around with bad boys and now look for a good father. Maybe she'll find an AFC who won't question it. Just like these girls will.
 

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What we need is a campaign for increased domestic violence.

I hope they all get a painful cancer.
 
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