You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So you're saying that a pool guy that looks like this doesnt get attention from women because he is not rich etc (list of alpha features)?Ease said:I can see clearly that there is an idea that you do not understand, so i will school you. Now read carefully because it is annoying when people reject truth and spread their misinformation.
Men fear and respect a strong man, he leads a conversation, he gives instructions, he is stronger. Women are attracted to a strong man. The same traits that make us respect and fear and place in a status above us, the same traits turns girls on and attracts.
Physical strength, confidence, leadership, power, ie. all masculine traits. We know what masculine traits are. If you want to talk about handsome and looks, then a wide jaw, tall and broad shoulders. These are traits which we classify men in the social pecking order from top dog - to worthless weak chode. The alpha dog is handsome, and vice versa.
What makes a man attractive to a woman is the same as what makes a man a top dog. Masculine traits are to impress and beat down male competitors as much as they are to attract females.
Now being rich, powerful and influential is an indicator of a masculine man because these men exhibit these traits. Exceptions aside, it takes a strong man to get ahead in life, and a weak one that gets to deal with ****. Women are attracted to money because they seek a provider, but thats irrelevant to the point we are making.
Im not saying rich men dont get cheated on. Im trying to explain to you what attracts women, because you show misunderstanding.
Seems like you changed your mind recently, now you added something "physical".Ease said:Terrible call by strelok, money and fame like that can make the ugliest guy look like a dream hunk.
Joe Pesci's ex-fiance: http://www.wallpaperpimper.com/wall...rt/Angie-Everhart-1-Big-Smile-1-1600x1200.jpg
I'm not going into the 'looks vs everything else debate', but money and fame make a guy more attractive than anything in the world.
So if woody allen and that guy I linked before enter a room woody is gonna get the attention of all the girls?Ease said:The handsome pool guy has no chance of competing when a movie star enters the room. The wife cheating on the rich husband depends on whether or not the man is a weak chode, weak chodes will get cheated on if there rich or not.
First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the woman. And i dont care for gossip, point is he was tapping that and your statement was false.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.