Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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MatureDJ

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just hard up from being shut out from hypergamic American women? Or was it just boys being boys whenever they have the chance, even though they get regularly sexed up in the USA?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think it's the latter.

Seems like throughout all of history, wherever fighters go, wh0res stand to make some good money.
 

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sex should be open and readily available for a price, just like other establishments fulfilling basic needs like restaurants and bars.

the fact that we have made sex something to fight for and earn is a female centric paradigm

if there was a clean brothel nearby I'd use it 4 times a month just for kicks the way I get my massage at the gym. (just more complete :)
 

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samspade said:
Definitely the latter. I would think a lot of American women would find a secret service agent attractive. It's a dangerous line of work, the men are mysterious, and they work for the most powerful man in the world. Plus they dress well and speak little.
except for the fact you can't tell them what you do :)
 

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I think these guys just wanted to get some "exotic" tail while they were abroad. I bet this happens quite a lot, these guys were simply unfortunate enough (or perhaps not careful enough) to get caught.

Just because guys choose to use the services of sex workers doesn't mean they can't get laid (unless we're talking about toothless, diseased crack wh0res).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I went to law school with a kid who got a SS agent job. He was very straight-laced; I don't think he even drank. I just now looked for his facebook to see if people were making Colombian wh0re jokes, and it seems like he deleted or hid it. That figures. Maybe they aren't allowed to be on facebook.
 

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Burroughs said:
except for the fact you can't tell them what you do :)

That's not true. I played baseball with a guy who bragged about being in the secret service and he even had his email signature with the secret service logo.
 

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Nah, they are just being secretly serviced.
 

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These guys were working hard to protect a President that hates America and is ruining the lives of future generations of Americans. it was simply downtime for them....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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