Do you think the non-Chads have "bugs" with their Tinder accounts?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan

Mar 24, 2018

Evidently, a lot of men are experiencing "bugs" with their Tinder accounts in that they are not getting any matches.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1zeso1/tinder_bug/

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/4n8pyx/psa_re_suddenly_getting_no_matches_or_replies/

I have a hunch that Chad Thunderc0ck doesn't get these bugs, and these men complaining about it are simply lacking in LMS, and that Tinder's AI system quickly figures out if a male user is a non-Chad, with the "bug" being the result.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.