"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think the movie "Blade Runner 2049" was sexist?

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I've just gotten around to watch it, and while the storyline was a bit to complex for my tastes, I found myself enraptured by the AI character names Joi.

Here are articles decrying it as sexist:
Here's a new Joi (the old Joi had terminated) making her acquaintance with the main character (Ryan Gosling):
You look lonely; I can fix that. You look like a Good Joe.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am surprized that you of all people would make a thread like that, especially as a self proclaimed escortceller! You met a feminist woman? This is different from the usual thirsty incel like threads you normally make.
 
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The issue is incels buying sex robots and toys or visiting prostitutes as depicted in the movie. Just imagine the main character is an incel. He has his own AI virtual girlfriend that can synch with a prostitute. Same thing happened in the movie Her (2013). If too many guys are left out of the dating market because them there is going to be a market for tech to substitute women. Heck even non incels who hate the nature of women and cant stand drama and bs would consider this.

Its all about what is depicted and what subliminal messages and signalling it has. Women crying sexist are hypocrites because they benefit from an unfair dating market and are the cause of these things in the first place.
 

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Any movie where female characters are not depicted as butch, ass-kicking amazons who don't conform to "gender stereotypes" is considered sexist these days.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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