"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think the hookup is becoming less popular because of hypergamy?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this and it got me thinking:

http://www.playboy.com/articles/millennials-the-hookup-generation

My contention follows from the fact that vehicles like Tinder and other online dating apps have made it so that there is such a plethora of choices for women that women are actually holding out for that Superman, and therefore are not interested in men who are less than that (i.e., virtually all men). Whereas just recently women took to these vehicles and submitted to an appreciable portion of men that were alpha males, the current schema is that with this plethora of choices, the minimum level for some man to achieve being Superman is so high that now the earlier band of alpha males are judged to not be alpha enough.

my opinion: In some ways this is good as women don't get on the c0ck carousel, and therefore will not have the problems associated with too much pre-marital slutting. The key is that these women would need to hit the expectations wall at some point before it is too late for this schema to be a net good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In some parts of the US I get a more responsiveness than others.
 
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