"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you think that women are scared of rejection like most men are?

Do you think women are scared of rejection?

  • Yes

    Votes: 43 87.8%
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ebracer05

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Women can't crave attention and be ambivalent to rejection. If they are the emotional creatures we know they are, rejection probably affects them to a greater extent than it does men. I would suspect they tend not to experience it as much and have a large supply of beta males ready on standby to ameliorate any of their negative feelings associated with a rejection.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just wait until their turn comes to be interested in a man. Now they'll have to see what it feels like to subjected to the decision of the man accepting her or rejecting her.
 

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Zerro said:
They're even more scared of it then men are, the only difference is that they're not expected to approach in the first place so it's not such a big roadblock for them most of the time.
Agree 100%

I was once told by my last gf, she thought I lost interest during our first date because of her saying something goofy. She told her best friend she didn't think she would hear from me again and was really bummed out by the mistake.

I thought what she said was funny though and told her I hadn't given it a second thought.
 

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As I stepped out of my courtroom, I noticed how much men fear getting rejected by women. And I see how hurt they get when they do get rejected. Myself included. I'm not invincible to rejection. No man in the world is.
That's because you are placing value on the women's answer, expecting an outcome when you ask a women out.

All you can do is be your best and try your best, focus on goals, constantly challenge yourself, improve, learn something valuable, help the world. Once you do, everything else is gravy.

Fear comes when you are not prepared and are placing value on the outcome.
 

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Women are ego invested in relationships, a rejection for them is to us like being told that our d1ck is small or we are less masculine than others.

Their value and acceptance from others are their benchmarks,they can bvllsh1t all the way about being empowered and crap but they mostly do to be desired or get approval.

The reason also why women dont go with gigolos is that they are not looking for the sex but for the ego boost of men going after them.
For them to get a men desired from many women is the ultimate pleasure.

In all my life all the women I rejected didnt have piece till they got me, for some it even toke years untill I was in dry spells, a rejected woman would do stuff extreme even for an afc in order to
get back "herself", yes its not about the guy who rejected them but about themselves.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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