MatureDJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Do you think that this woman would make a good wife?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
I give her credit for bucking the trends, taking risks and trying something for herself. I think where she f*cked up was trying to do things that had been done 300 times before, by all those other teachers. She didn't find any way to stand out from the crowd. And sure, plenty of entitlement sprinkled in there....I like how she got fired from her job, rather than have a set of balls and quit, and dedicate herself 100% to yoga.
People often fail due to lack of a plan and/or lack of innovation. She was obviously the latter.
People often fail due to lack of a plan and/or lack of innovation. She was obviously the latter.
old married dude
Senior Don Juan
Yeah & NYC is a REALLY bad market to get into something like that b/c it's too saturated. There's probably 10,000 or more yoga instructors in the NYC area all competing for the same customers. She woulda likely been better off to start off in a smaller town. Always research the competition when you're looking to start a business in any market. If it's saturated then you're likely going to fail unless your product is extremely innovative and your competitors are offering nothing like it.speed dawg said: