"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think that single mommies have too high standards?

MatureDJ

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And that is why some guys go look for girls outside of America which has better values. Those men during the great depression has better women in them than what mentality this girl has.
 

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the system

The only way to beat the system is to make many many many approaches using all your tools (live, online) and spin plates.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So, why did she have unprotected sex with him then? did the dumbass think having a KID would improve her chances in life?
 

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Every single female has high standards. No news here.
 

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The other night I was eating lunch with a super hot chick from my work (she's a secretary) who happens to have a child. She is also in ridiculously good shape, and competes every now and then in fitness competitions. She had a kid with some no good loser who was a personal trainer and doesn't pay child support because he "has no money" and who cheated on her with some average looking chick. Yet when she tells me all her woes about not being able to find a guy, she talks about how she wants someone funny, who will accept her child as his own, yet will not have any of his own kids because it would be awkward having a family with all these different kids with different mothers and fathers. She realized her own hypocrisy, but she doesn't care. She talks about every factor except a super good looking guy, which in reality is probably the only factor she really cares about.. she will just never admit it.

The worst part is, they constantly complain about how there's "no good men left, they're all taken" when they don't even realize that good men are all around them staring them right in the face. They just want nothing to do with them, because they're attracted to nobody losers who treat them like crap. Besides, 70 percent of marriages end in divorce, so by this theory even if the good ones are taken, most of the so called good ones are back on the market soon anyway.

But meh they`re women what do you expect anyway. Logic, reason, and sense are not really words that come to mind when you think of them
Are you guys so desperate you have to listen to trash sob stories from garbage broads? PEPPER SPRAY TO FACE!!!

Goddamn, I would tell this broad: "Eew you're creepy! PLZ JUST STFU!"

There are plenty of women IN THE WORLD, with REALISTIC standards. Don't waste time or money on self entitled american broads.
 
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