"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you think that married women divorcing because they feel "gender fluidity" is due to the husband losing his frame?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/why-women-leave-husbands-other-152142316.html
Women are more likely than men to cheat on their spouses with a same-sex partner, studies suggest. It’s not that women are more likely to be homosexual or bisexual—it’s that women appear more willing than men to change their minds about what turns them on, throughout their lives.
When experts say that women are more likely to be sexually fluid, they mean that they’re more likely to make an exception to, or even update, their sexual identities.
my opinion: A man that keeps his frame doesn't have to concern himself with his wife doing this; it is because he is not properly establishing that he is man deserving of a wife that stays proper.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I no longer buy this "blame the guy" if anything doesnt work, a guy can have the best frame possible but there are factors outside his control.

Even the best sport pilot cant outperform a crappy built engine or an oil leak.
 

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There's a big misconception in that article, that sexual attraction is a choice. It's not, it just appears that some choose differently later because they tried fitting into the norms of society, until they said "fvck it" and stopped acting.

Outside of that there's plenty of people who are curious about it, but not necessarily into it more. Then there's the fact that it's less taboo for women to do sexual things with other women, so of course it's more common for women to cheat with same sex. Although I'd think cheating with a same sex lover is probably extremely rare compared to just regular cheating, so not really a significant social phenomenon...
 

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Most women I know who are lesbians are actually bi and will swing both ways. Most gay dudes I know are flat out not at all attracted to women PERIOD. There are always exceptions, but yea... straight chicks often experiment with other chicks... totally normal. How many parties have you gone to where there were two straight chicks making out and dancing. I've never seen straight dudes doing this at a party EVER... even when they are near passed out drunk. It's just how women are.
 

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/why-women-leave-husbands-other-152142316.html




my opinion: A man that keeps his frame doesn't have to concern himself with his wife doing this; it is because he is not properly establishing that he is man deserving of a wife that stays proper.
Rich Cooper depicts female logic, female nature, hypergamy and her ability to change her mind at any time.

You as a man need to be cautious with how you proceed. The state has no. Place in your LTR. If a man is retarded enough to marry or live common law, he is asking for divorce rape and cucking.

Rollo beats competition together. I concur. Furthermore, I have to agree but willingness to walk is GOAT STATUS. Walking is impossible without any headache and likely extracted resources.

80% of divorce initiated by women. The prevalence of bulking season after 23 in western society begs the question why are men retarded? She drinks like dad. Cant cook like mom. Cucks marry her.


Part of the cheating via lez or dyking out is again about boundaries or lack thereof.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Most women I know who are lesbians are actually bi and will swing both ways. Most gay dudes I know are flat out not at all attracted to women PERIOD. There are always exceptions, but yea... straight chicks often experiment with other chicks... totally normal. How many parties have you gone to where there were two straight chicks making out and dancing. I've never seen straight dudes doing this at a party EVER... even when they are near passed out drunk. It's just how women are.
Its again female nature and a attempt to optimization of it. Guys like it and she attempts to monkey branch. It also means that she is testing boundaries.

Cucking should be grounds for stoning. As in, weeded out of the gene pool and existence.
 
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