"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think that fat women are becoming less ashamed?

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(Warning: View this article on an empty stomach! :eek:)

http://www.xojane.com/issues/fat-girl-dancing-whitney-thore

A FAT GIRL DANCING: I Didn't Let A 100-Pound Weight Gain Stop Me From Doing What I Love, And I Hope You Wouldn't Either
Between this article and the popular TV show that has a fat chick always getting naked, I get the feeling that fat women, instead of remaining ashamed as they had been, are now much more "proud" of themselves and seem to not be ashamed - and even now shame men that find them disgusting.

My opinion: :down: :down:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's just odd thinking about where we've gone in society. We've started shaming men for being masculine and sexual, and now the pro-fat propaganda is telling men that fat is beautiful and shames men who think otherwise. Women are trying to control men's nature. They really do run this world - or at least that's their goal.
 

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not mature as much as you guys
but to some extent this will help economy
fat bishes be like i am gorgeous....this will make them start spending money :up:
 

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When I was in high school, "cheerleader" and "skinny" were synonyms. They were all pencil-thin and hot, which is why they got to be cheerleaders. I think my school had one halfway chunky chick on the squad, but they let her be a cheerleader because she was good at gymnastics. Everyone still kinda snickered, though.

Today, they are all fat! Cheerleader does not mean 'skinny' any more. They range from chunky to downright overweight. Occasionally, espn will air the national dance championship or whatever it is. These are supposed to be the best cheerleaders in the nation, and they are all still chunky! I don't think they can even do the same moves they could 20 years ago, where they would take the smallest one, who weighed about 90 pounds, and throw her up in the air. Today's young American woman is not built for throwing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The condition is well embraced now in our society. Therefore there is no need for them to be ashamed of it. My only concerns , and more appropriately fear, are effects it will have on our future generations.
 
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