"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think that fat women are becoming less ashamed?

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(Warning: View this article on an empty stomach! :eek:)

http://www.xojane.com/issues/fat-girl-dancing-whitney-thore

A FAT GIRL DANCING: I Didn't Let A 100-Pound Weight Gain Stop Me From Doing What I Love, And I Hope You Wouldn't Either
Between this article and the popular TV show that has a fat chick always getting naked, I get the feeling that fat women, instead of remaining ashamed as they had been, are now much more "proud" of themselves and seem to not be ashamed - and even now shame men that find them disgusting.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's just odd thinking about where we've gone in society. We've started shaming men for being masculine and sexual, and now the pro-fat propaganda is telling men that fat is beautiful and shames men who think otherwise. Women are trying to control men's nature. They really do run this world - or at least that's their goal.
 

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not mature as much as you guys
but to some extent this will help economy
fat bishes be like i am gorgeous....this will make them start spending money :up:
 

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When I was in high school, "cheerleader" and "skinny" were synonyms. They were all pencil-thin and hot, which is why they got to be cheerleaders. I think my school had one halfway chunky chick on the squad, but they let her be a cheerleader because she was good at gymnastics. Everyone still kinda snickered, though.

Today, they are all fat! Cheerleader does not mean 'skinny' any more. They range from chunky to downright overweight. Occasionally, espn will air the national dance championship or whatever it is. These are supposed to be the best cheerleaders in the nation, and they are all still chunky! I don't think they can even do the same moves they could 20 years ago, where they would take the smallest one, who weighed about 90 pounds, and throw her up in the air. Today's young American woman is not built for throwing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The condition is well embraced now in our society. Therefore there is no need for them to be ashamed of it. My only concerns , and more appropriately fear, are effects it will have on our future generations.
 
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