"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think that countries getting stronger are always patriarchical?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article about how the Playboy brand (especially the clubs) becoming popular in India, a country that is in the midst of a rise from utter squalor, and it got me thinking. Back when the Playboy Club was considered cool in the USA, the American economy was the unquestioned leader in the world stage, whereas now, all the economic growth is happening in the emerging market countries, with the American labor market extraordinarily weak - something that has coincided with the onset of the matriarchy.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/11/fashion/playboy-bunny-makeover-for-india-opening.html?_r=1&

Of course it could also be because horny Hindi-Indian men like looking at Northern European women (which will debut at these clubs ...) :woo:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dear MDJ,
Anyone who would compare the svexual mores of India today with the US of Hugh Hefner,has never visited India....It is such a moralistic repressive Nation,why you never even see Women Socially they are all well locked up away from harm...Forget that article it is just froth and bubbles!
 

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Agree with Scaramouche.

Mature DJ, you really need to cut down on reading Slate, New York Times and similar mainstream crap. The world that we live in has very little resemblance to how it is portrayed by the U.S. media.
 

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Dear MDJ,
Having travelled extensively in India,a Country I love,on three Holidays..The impression one takes away is of a social system absolutely locked into and dominated by the Hindu Religion...Sure the face India projects to the World is of a Technologically vibrant,aggressive little Nation,up there with China hell bent on showing the World how they can be more efficient than us in using the technology we invented...Its not like that, when you go there,they are far more driven by the needs of the Farmers and countless millions of village people who while they have TV's,computers and cell phones maybe even a motor bike...lead simple lives not much changed for hundreds of years...Do they know or care that their Nation has a new Aircraft Carrier rescued from rusting away at its moorings in Odessa,do they even know where Mars is,let alone that their Nation is building a budget rocket ship to go there...No,they are more interested in whether a good Monsoon will come this year!
 
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