"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think that American men of Slavic heritage are especially prone to inceldom because the situation was so good for their male ancestors?

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I was listening to this video from True Forced Loneliness legend "Roller" Steve Hoca, where he & his guest admit to having Eastern-European heritage, and this got me thinking. In generations past, the male ancestors of these guys had no problem getting a wife, but now they find their Y chromosomes stuck in a very forboding time & place. Men with ancestors of other heritages don't have as bad of a problem since the Y chromosomes of their uncles got weeded out of the gene pool, leaving a more Chaddish gene pool.

This discussion starts about @ 11:15

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have some Eastern European ancestry but more Irish and Scandinavian. You would think that would cancel it out...
 

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Imho, i don't think it's that simple. Men want a magic pill or something like that explains success or lack thereof. Thinking Ape aka star dust was on a podcast with Monday Blue/Monday FA. Ape argued that FA would have had bettee success in Germany instead of anywhere in America. Not Chad's or Tyrone status but, as in more rather than less success.

I have mates from the UK and surrounding areas. I have heard some playboys sat its ****ty back home. You get **** from women at home. When in America, its a cake walk. Its just too simple for the pull. Furthermore, they're shorter than the average American but, they are naturally attractive, got game, swagger, accent, flare, and its also likely that nobody will know. Out of sight. Out of mind.

Imho incel and FAers don't truly exist. Then again, neither is monogamy, marriage, happily ever after. A incel can get a escort or hooker. Given kill count, its not far off from the average American woman in 2019. It all runs its course and disolves. It is smoke and mirrors.

I have a real life Mr Miyagi. He deems it all a "lease." it costs you money. It portrays or feeds you into the abyss and delusions of ownership or possession. Its entropy. You cannot take it to the next place. Not npw or ever.
 

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What's this nonsensical gibberish about Y chromosome being interchangeable or even combining?

Only the X gene does that, combining with each other and that's the female chromosome.

The Y male chromosome is fixed, it has remained the same 5000 years ago in ur ancestor as it does today inside you.

Most men are endowed with XY chromosome, having an extra Y makes him male.

But there's also men with XXY chromosome making them more effeminated.

Whilst this may be true, masculinity is not something inherited like breastfeeding is for women but it's more towards upbringing.

For a man to be truly manly, he must be trained by a whole village of men, there is no alternative to this fact.
 

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What's this nonsensical gibberish about Y chromosome being interchangeable or even combining?

Only the X gene does that, combining with each other and that's the female chromosome.

The Y male chromosome is fixed, it has remained the same 5000 years ago in ur ancestor as it does today inside you.

Most men are endowed with XY chromosome, having an extra Y makes him male.

But there's also men with XXY chromosome making them more effeminated.

Whilst this may be true, masculinity is not something inherited like breastfeeding is for women but it's more towards upbringing.

For a man to be truly manly, he must be trained by a whole village of men, there is no alternative to this fact.
internet is best teacher
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Internet can't teach you instincts.
Spaz I think what the podcast speakers forgot is that people back then were ostracized if they had lots of self pity and everyone was an asset to their motherland. You literally were not allowed to do what you can do now, from watching triple x videos to making podcasts. Time wasting is now acceptable compared to looking back.
 

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Spaz I think what the podcast speakers forgot is that people back then were ostracized if they had lots of self pity and everyone was an asset to their motherland. You literally were not allowed to do what you can do now, from watching triple x videos to making podcasts. Time wasting is now acceptable compared to looking back.
More like laziness is an acceptable trait among the youths.
 
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