Do you think she likes you?

[SamePendo]

I remember reading here about a experiment. Were goodlooking and non-goodlooking guys were put to interact with women. The goodlooking-confident thought the women were more interested in them than they really were, and non-goodloking-, non-confident, guys thought the women were less interested in them.


I used to think lots about interest level, reading her signs etc.
Now I just assume they are interested. If they blow me off, smile, vomit, haha, whatever!
I dont look for signs, I just assume they are interested. And guess what? Maybe they arent interested at first, but I suppose my attitude makes them interested in me with time!
Does this happen to you?

 

[Starman]

Yea one of the most mental "c0ck-blocking" thoughts a guy could have is the question

"Is she interested?"

The point is to ASSUME she IS

if she isnt, The YOU will find out

but if she IS interested, and you Misread her signals..and just kept quiet..You fvcked UP!

Just follow some of the guidelines on here..if she is ignoring you and talking to others..it obviously means she isnt interested

 

[megz_hunni]

assume shes interested. if you start to question that, you'll lose the confidence that you'll need to get with her. keep that attitude but dont be a jerk about it and you'll get your girl for sure.

 

[SamePendo]

Originally posted by Starman
Just follow some of the guidelines on here..if she is ignoring you and talking to others..it obviously means she isnt interested

I consider that looking again at the guidelines would be a step back.

I allready get women. I am happy (regardless of my relationship status). I suppose this is the cloudy goal I had when I first came here.

Sometimes I DO get jerkish, and arrogant, not only with women im interested in, but with people in general haha. But, im happy. I dont hurt anyone.
I suppose the base, the support of the DJ persona is nearly complete. Next step is to aim to the sky, building over the support of the pyramid.

 

[THA REALNESS]

I assume they are interested also.