"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you think new wifey who wants to abort hubby's child thinks of hubby as "starter marriage" material?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://slate.com/human-interest/20...about-six-slate-women-tell-their-stories.html

I got pregnant on my honeymoon.

I feel like when I got home, I was immediately pregnant. Like I immediately knew. My husband, John, really wanted the decision to be mine in a way that I think he was sort of trained to think was the right thing to do and was the right thing to do. But I do remember feeling like I didn’t want the decision to just be mine. That was a lot to carry and figure out. I remember crying, and saying over and over again, I want to have those young, carefree married years. I wanted to have that experience together. I wanted to figure out my career. We decided after a couple of days. But again, I think I knew right away what I was going to do.
But you don't want to mix your genes with your husband, just have him around to have "young, carefree married years". That said, I suppose that since he didn't put his foot down, deep down he has failed your sh!t test. :down:

Why do I have the feeling that this chick will be freezing her eggs and wondering "where are the men" 10 years hence. :rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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