"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you think names matter?

BongDuy

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Have you ever seen malcom in the middle? think about the youngest of the brothers. His name more specifically. Dewey. Do - We.

I might be a little insecure about this, but think about that name for a second. Do you think of an alpha name when you hear this? Or do you think of some wimp?

That's pretty much my name. Where I come frm, it's not pronounced like that at all, but in America, most people read my name and it just naturally comes out as " dewey". I obviously grew tired of correcting everyone that I ever met, so I just let it be. Dewey became my name in highschool and that's how they know me.

Im going to college soon, so its pretty much a fresh start. Growing up as a kid, I actually went under the name "Chris", so maybe i'll go under that identity. What do you guys think? Am I over thinking?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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vatoloco

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I don't like my first name. It doesn't sound very masculine so, with women I'm interested in, I go with my middle name which is far more masculine-sounding than my first.

Though it used to cause problems in the past with my family (they'd hear women call me by my middle name and freak out), they've gotten used it.
 

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Yeah it does matter...not sure why, but I mean some names just sound cool and some sound gay
 

The Mad Ghost

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Can't tell you how many times I've broken up or got busted by with a girl for not telling her my real name. In the end, the truth will set you free. If you truelly cannot stand you're name. Find ways to shorten and develop it. I wish I could Legsweep DDT my Old Man for naming me after a famous actor!, but I've come up with solutions and have just gone with the shorter. Try to shorten it or add on to it. Infact, I do actually think you're birthname can be attractive dictators with women. If you have two hot guys who are equally as hot in womencode. Ones name is Brad and the other is Toby? Who do you think is more desirable?

There are ways. Try and make it into a common knickname where people get familiar with it or just change you're birthname with papers- Its just another journey in you're life, any means necessary to be happy with YOU, nobody else. BondGuy isn't you're name Chris? Whats wrong with that.
 

Kailex

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George Carlin did a bit about names a few years ago. He said soft names make for soft people. I can only paraphrase, but I'm sure that he said that 10 times out of 10:

Taylor, Brandon, and Todd are going to get their asses kicked by Tony, Eddie and Rocco.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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horaholic

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Rocco? :crackup:

I've always only gone by my last name. my roomate didnt know my first name till a week ago.

Honestly though, a name is just a name. If may be a weird name, but I would safely bet that no girl would think less of you for being named dewey. All the same, I would try for a different one.
 

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I used to give fake name when I met the chicks... actually, I still do when I know it is a ONS, but at a professional setting, I go by my real name. If you don't like your name, create a fake name and stick to it.
 

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Yeah. I had a lot of bad experiences with my name growing up. Bad nicknames. Laughing girls. But with a name like Testostico Fantistiballs, what else could you expect.
 

Warrior74

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Iceberg said:
Yeah. I had a lot of bad experiences with my name growing up. Bad nicknames. Laughing girls. But with a name like Testostico Fantistiballs, what else could you expect.

Seriously, I would love to have that name. I would say it often and with a spanish accent. Chicks would swoon.

My middle name is very child like and my parents and family still call me that. I hate it. My first name isn't much better, so when I became a mc I went by my MC name for years. There are people who have known me for 10-15 years and don't know my real name.
 

Iceberg

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Warrior74 said:
Seriously, I would love to have that name. I would say it often and with a spanish accent. Chicks would swoon.

My middle name is very child like and my parents and family still call me that. I hate it. My first name isn't much better, so when I became a mc I went by my MC name for years. There are people who have known me for 10-15 years and don't know my real name.

Haha. Yeah obviously that's not my real name. It is the name of my Fantasy Football team though. So that's something.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tiguere

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Wanna know what's the weakest/wimpiest.pussiest/betaest name .........

KYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYLE.
 

1 Bad Dude

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What if your parents named you 1 Bad Dude? Is that a masculine name? haha... Seriously tho, I go by c.j.(my initials) cuz it comes off much better than my first name. Not that I don't like it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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War Against Betaism

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My name is both a girls and boys name, but more often a girls name. I've hated my name all my life until I started to embrace it. What is "cool" and what is "not cool" is how you make it out to be. To me the definition of cool is something sophisticated and new that the upper dogs of the social ladder approve of. A while ago at a party I met a guy named Kim (my friend later on told me that his full name is Kimberly) and next thing I know the guy is getting head from a girl in the bathroom.
 

Kailex

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Tiguere said:
Wanna know what's the weakest/wimpiest.pussiest/betaest name .........

KYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYLE.
I'm glad someone else has watched it! :cheer:
 

Diaforetikos

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"You better look out. KYLE is comin' to get you."
"Kyle? Isn't that the n!gga wit the glasses?"

Hahahaha!! Too funny!!
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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Im not too fond of my name either, so generic and common. I easily know 10 people with the same name. My middle name isnt any better.

Lots of people go by a shortened version of their name, you should do the same and ask to be called Do(dew)
 

londonzen

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inj england you can change your name by deed poll must be the same in usa no?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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