Do you think men are "socialized young to believe they are owed sex and attention from women"?"

[MatureDJ]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...-entitlement-and-the-groups-who-perpetuate-it

Many men are socialized young to believe they are owed sex and attention from women. They are led to believe that if they are nice, or a gentleman, or do favors, or are a ‘nice guy,’ that this entitles them to sex. The whole idea of ‘friendzoning’ and the indignation around the fear of being an attentive and good friend to a woman and not being rewarded with vagina in return (as if the only thing worthwhile about companionship with another human being is whether or not you get laid as a result), is indicative of this dehumanizing socialization that can lead to extreme and horrifying outcomes like this.

 

[Serenity]

Many women are socialized young to believe men are eunuchs, then get scared when they find out reality doesn't live up to their expectations. Of course men want to fvck and we do some pretty stupid things to do that sometimes, I'd be lying if I said I'm not in it for sex at all. They take my d!ck or they have no function beyond friendship, MAYBE.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

It goes both ways. I’ve met plenty of girls who are socialised to think they’re entitled to a man who is perfect in every way.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I agree with that, too bad they are socialized like that from the same people who later tell them that girls own them nothing.

The best policy would be total honesty to begin with but in that case no free meals or special treatment for plenty of people and most of all plenty onf guys living wildly, basically the opposit of what keeps this society in place.

 

[Von]

It's all about Education and Experience.

Education: Parenting, School... what you should do

Experience: What you get

It's true more and more guys are taught to be "the nice guy and listening to the woman need... especially by school and some family where the dad might be absent in a way or another"

Than experience teach the guys... well you did what you were educated for...but it's not what she wanted/emotionally respond too.

Experience shows in the younger crowd the "bad boy" is winning... the bad boy who aint following the "education route" aka being rebel.

Eventually the "nice guy" will repent by becoming a "good guy" ... and than get the SuperWoman. (Well some of them)

The education system is female oriented.. My friend is doing primary education courses... on 60 students... 57 women, 3 men.

There is a crisis in the education system where I live.

The teachers have to do the parenting + the education teaching... with usually 30 students whom 6 of them are adhd/austim.

The US Washington state has been having in the past 5 years a entire overhaul of its education....
They put the "smart" kids in 30 rtudent class.
They tend put the "at risk or nuts" kids in 10 student class.

It gives the kids with needs more attention, while the smart ones who feel above the system they progress together.

Medical students are number 1 anti-education system... they are "super-gifted" usually... so they don't need a education system. Hence putting them in the most numerous class.. While they need the less attention is good. It will boost the other students to.

Anyway, women have more masculined and taught to be feeling oriented... the guys been more feminized and feeling oriented.... You bound to crash somewhere.

Remains.... The Romans and Greek had the same issues in 1000 BC (women are from Venus, men are from Mars).... Good luck crossing space lol

I believe Gender differences should remain in term of psychology and what was working in the old systems... has to come back. And if we believe in equality: it should be the same entry test for everyone (ex: the military/police exams should be same for women and men)

 

[foreverAFC]

when i was younger yes but only because i spent my entire childhood/teen years watching movies and shows like American Pie and Saved by the Bell, growing up i thought thats how it was supposed to be, but i realized pretty quickly thats not how it works for most people and i dont feel entitled now

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Not true at all. Men are told just to deal with it when their woman behaves like a *****. But flip the scripts and all of a sudden you got a wifebeater? Hell no.

 

[devilkingx2]

it's more like, nobody is up front about how the world works until it's time to deprogram you with the red pill, all men would be alpha if society was up front about the whole "women owe you nothing so don't put any extraneous effort into any girl and talk to as many as possible" thing