“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you think it's possible for a chick to have the hobbies of exhibitionism & pole dancing and not have experience as a stripper?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

BaronOfHair

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-Exhibitionism is similar to psychopathy... MOST human beings possess shades of such things

-Women have been learning to pole dance since The 90s, with the majority NOT becoming strippers

Gal who's picture you posted soiled her appeal by including "Environmentalism" and "Climate Change" in her list of interests, faster than a meth head f-cks his chances of getting on Taco Bell's pay role, by blazing up 5 minutes before the interview
 
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Pole dancing is becoming an increasingly popular fitness activity lately. At least among those who don't get dizzy from it.

Listing environmentalism is an easy way to weed out the climate deniers. Although she also lists "equestrian" (horse riding) which means she's probably *not* an animal rights activist, something that has a big overlap with environmentalism. (That said, animal rights activists are over represented on social media as they're "loud".)
 

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Maybe this is a double entendre. She likes to ride pole in the reverse cowboy position. You can ask her about the weather and social development while she goes bare back riding. Nice pair of DSLs. Looks like a lot of virtue signaling tho.
 

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There's a pole dancing class near me that claims to be for fitness so that wouldn't really be a red flag. However as others have noted, the climate change stuff is always a huge red flag, unless youre just trying to bang her. If that's the case its a huge green flag because the farther left they are the easier it is to get in their pants. Just repeat whatever nonsense they babble to you about politics back to them and those legs quickly spread open.
You definitely dont want to settle down with someone dumb enough to think the world will be uninhabitable in a decade, as many of them have earnestly believed since the 1990s.
 

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From what I’ve seen, women who sign up for pole dancing, or sometimes chair dancing, are often single. A lot of them do it to feel sexy, boost their self-esteem after a breakup, and with the idea that it’s something they can bring into a future relationship, in which is something a future partner might benefit from. Once they’re in a relationship, many tend to stop going. Others might just try a class or two if a friend invites them, especially if they’ve never done anything like it before.

It is filed under "whatever" for me.
 

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There's a pole dancing class near me that claims to be for fitness so that wouldn't really be a red flag
Preferable to a chick who claims there's a blackbird outside her window, speaking to her no less eloquently than Martin Luther or Pericles
 

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You do realize that exhibition and exhibitionism are not the same thing, right?

It's like being social vs. being a socialist. Just because they sound similar does not mean they have the same meaning.
 

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Few people list interests as a genuine expression of who they are.

OLD is self-marketing.

People choose interests to make themselves more marketable.

But to the OP's point, nearby where I live is a pole dancing studio.

People go there and practice pole dancing like people go to aerobics.

This lady is most likely not a stripper.

She plays tennis and rides horses.

If she were a stripper her hobbies would be meth cooking and tattoos.
 
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