Do you think it's only Incel-tier cops that abuse Flock surveillance systems to stalk women who had rejected them, or to keep tabs on their own women?

[MatureDJ]

I was reading about this, and I couldn't help but think that the cops doing this are all Incel-tier. I have a theory: Chad-tier cops wouldn't stalk because they have options, and would just next any chick that had left them, whereas lower-tier man, who don't have options, have to hold on to anything they can get.

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Former police officer who tracked estranged wife’s car pleads guilty to stalking

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[corrector]

I don’t think this is necessarily “incel-tier.” Some guys are possessive by nature, and when you combine possessiveness with power, access to databases, cameras, or authority, it can turn ugly fast.

I’ve had painful breakups/divorce, but I never wanted to stalk anyone or keep tabs on them. Part of that was because it hurt too much to see them outside the context of us being together. I just wanted distance so I could heal.

So I think the issue here is less “low-tier men vs Chad cops” and more about entitlement, control, and misuse of authority. A man can have options and still be controlling. Another man can have no options and still leave women alone. The real line is whether he respects boundaries after it’s over.

 

[The Duke]

I don't think it has anything to do about what "tier" you are on. It has everything to do about how you handle rejection and are able to move on. Sure having options allows one to distract themselves from the one who rejected them, but they still have to process the rejection.